thanx
 

All your suggestions are much appreciated, I met a very fine "cougar" and we are supposed to meet this week, hopefully I can take pics and post em' up here!

eye contact
 

Its all about the eye contact between man and woman - if she'd wanted to maintain eye contact long enough then sliding on over would have been the moving to make.
Interestingly it puts women into the right state IF they find you interesting - it has the automatic effect of raising heart rate and blood pressure. So once that eye contact is made then playing with it can only benefit the hot well built black man as her response becomes automatic - reading here about a woman's response to dry mouth (hooked100) is because her intake of oxygen just went up because of the automatic physiological response. BUT this also means the window of opportunity is small and having to strike whilst the iron is hot before that heart rate begins resettling.

Hope you have a great time with your cougar