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[briggss81]

So I am still making progress towards my goal of my wife becoming a hotwife.
I think she needs and wants it, and I would love to see it.
I have been working at this for over a year now and seeing progress.
She loves the idea of another guy or two guys or more in bed.
She initiates bedroom talk about this.
She knows very clearly I would love to see her with a guy, or that she can do what she wants with other guys.
I personally know a couple guys my wife has volunteered on her own she would absolutely fuck, but I don't know how to broach that subject with these guys and ensure things would stay discreet- what she desires and chooses to share/ talk about is not the same- in other words she wouldn't want anyone to know she was freaky, or, that I offered my wife up to them.

So, my progress has plateaued...
So, as for next steps...

I know she would NOT be interested in sites like this (says they are too pervy). Internet porn in general grosses her out (but porn on tv is ok, go figure).
She does not like to talk about it in any depth outside the bedroom. She gets very embarrassed (which I see actually as a good sign).

So, the one thing I keep thinking is- if i can team up with a guy or guys on here that are willing to help seduce her, I think that would work. I think a more "natural" approach would work- as in simply a goodlooking guy hitting on her and giving her alot of attention.

I am certain that if me and my wife were out and she were hit on and she was interested in the guy and I let her know clearly she could do whatever she wanted- she would do it. Maybe not the first time, but it would happen.

I think for this to work fastest I would have to prearrange this. She likes to dress up and look sexy, when we go out I notice guys looking (sometimes staring) but no one ever approaches. She is attractive and sexy, so that's not the issue. I have even seen guys stop in their tracks and watch her go by just to see the backside (she's got a big juicy butt) and I have told her what I have seen, and at times she has asked about it later, like, "what did that guy in target do/ say/ etc.?"

But I have reservations about this- I would be setting something up behind her back (asking guys from here or asking the guys I know). If it all works out, its water under the bridge. But if she were to catch on or find out- that would be bad.

Anyone have any better suggestions? Or maybe this is a good idea? Any honest help would be apprceciated.

[briggss81]

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[SquirtKing]

I am in almost the same situation. We already do threesomes MMF, but no black cock yet. When I finger my girl, I am using three or more fingers and say to her that it is just like a big cock.She starts to moan and cum.

She knows I like IR sex. She doesn't ignore this, but she doesn't talk about it too. So I am not 100% sure about her opinion.

I have think about the same thing like you. Set up a meeting with some good looking guys from here and let's see what happens.

[briggss81]

thanks squirt, I know I'm not alone.
how do you feel about setting it up?

[SquirtKing]

I am still in a doubt about it. I think that reading good story's about it will help, or watching good movies about it. But no hardcore porn.

In Europe it looks quite difficult to find a bbc.

[smcbain62]

Briggs, I am in the same exact situation. I've wondered about doing what you are contemplating, setting something up that seems natural, that she has no idea is a set up. Would love to know how you make out.

[SquirtKing]

My experience is that wome are very very smart and that they are able to feel when it is a setup

[briggss81]

exactly- i would want it to be natural....
thanks for your input.

i am still working on it, no progres to report, however...

[SquirtKing]

Yesterday I watched a serie about swinging couples. One of the boys was a black man. I watched it with my girl and she didn't ignored it.

Also fucked her yesterday with a big pink vibrator I think, when I take care, and when I am patience, it will happen once, but I don't know when

[Deb4DJ]

You'll have more success if you can put her in a comfort zone and then add the extra guys to the equation. Have a party or have your guy friends have a party. Ask her to go to the kitchen and fetch beer then whisper in her ear over the course of the night how sexy she looks and then start telling her about the looks she's getting when she goes in & out of the room. Let nature take it's course. Inevitably she'll catch someone's eye and they'll take it to the next level.