Bringing up the topic of BBC again with wife

BADASS2001 · #1 (**permalink**) 10-27-2010, 09:52 PM

Ok long story but short version. Wife is really ougoing fun woman and loves sex. She is pretty shy though. Goes along with stuff but I am always the one to bring stuff up. About 6 months ago i pop the question about a MMF during sex and she got super wet and crazy!! She said she would like it and was thinking about it. From there it didnt go as planned. It some how turned into what she thought was me asking her to do this so i could go out and cheat on her. She thought i was wanting to do this as some act of repayment for something I did or was going to do.. It wasnt anything like that, i just wanted to have a good time and the thought of her going bbc was drivingme crazy. I havent brought it up again since then but god its killing me and i want to ask her again. I think she would do it if she jsut understood it was sex and fun but women are on a complete different level with emotions... any REAL advice?

susu56 · #2 (**permalink**) 10-27-2010, 10:20 PM

Just explain it to her like you have to us here. I don't know why but it turns my husband on like it does you and if you just sit down and explain this to her, if she is like me she will be glad you did and it will greatly improve your sex life as it has ours.

AnnieeRedd · #3 (**permalink**) 10-27-2010, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by susu56

Just explain it to her like you have to us here. I don't know why but it turns my husband on like it does you and if you just sit down and explain this to her, if she is like me she will be glad you did and it will greatly improve your sex life as it has ours.

Yeah
Maybe watch some movies with her or go out to a sex club under the idea of "just watching"

teewest · #4 (**permalink**) 10-28-2010, 01:26 AM

You seem like you really want Baby Girl to experience some "Black Pipe" as well you should. This is what i gather from reading your Msg 1. You REALLY want a Brother to Drill Wifey! 2. You are way,WAY ahead of her in this endeavor so much so i bet she does not know you are posting her pics ( a divorce if she finds out lol) 3. You are frusrated with the lack of progress. Here is some food for thought 1. Be creative, if she is as shy as you say Blurting out Hey Fuck A Black Guy gets you no where. 2. Introduce her to a Black Guy that might pique her curiosty ( it would help if he had some serious conversation and charm) and maybe get her panties all nice and wet... THEN.... her pussy.... would start "telling her" IT wants to be Fucked. Trust me she Would listen to it before you. 3. Get the right kind of Black Guy for her or you will regret it ( divorce lol) for instance take this site for example two kind of Black Men here 1. The drop-your-draws-i'm-gonna fuck-yo-brains-out type. or 2. The kind who enjoy the chase, who want to make sure she remembers him by writing his name on her womb with his Dick and her laying on the bed passed out. just some food for thought Peace!!!

BADASS2001 · #5 (**permalink**) 10-29-2010, 07:56 PM

teewest u on the money... i dont think she would be mad, just want to talk about it. She was VERY interested in it when i brought it up but the after she got to thinking she thought it was about something I did bad,, which it not.. She was QUICK to say yes to the offer too. Shes is a tricky one... not one who really cares for porn but loves to try new things all the time..... It could go 2 ways,, a no and mad or yes and bliss.... just uncharted teritory and doent know how to proceed... remember she already said yes once... but shit!......

teewest · #6 (**permalink**) 10-29-2010, 11:49 PM

Hope you can find a good Brother for her!! One who will lick her kitty-kat like a ice cream cone on a hot day and fill her womb with a good 16-20 ozs of steaming hot cream!!! Peace

ockmick · #7 (**permalink**) 11-04-2010, 01:48 PM

i understand your problem,..after more then 18 years of marriage my wife and i wanted to "spice " up our relationship,.we considered swinging but sex with someone we just met seemed far to risky.,.then i found out that a couple we knew and were close with was in the same boat,..wanting to try something new but wanting it safe and discreet.
the only problem,..they were black and my wife comes from a bit of a racist background. even though she liked the guy the idea of "servicing" a black cock put her off AND she felt i only wanted to fuck HIS wife (partly true) ,..but after sitting down and talking it over at length like adults we decided to at least give it a try.,.
after setting rules and the first few times were still awkward and uncomfortable,..i believe that jelousy played a big part in making it difficult,..but we continued to have open and honest conversations between BOTH ourselves AND our lovers until her fears were allayed.
open and HONEST communication is the true key to finding and experiancing a forefilling sexual escapade.,.after more than TWO years we are still involved with the same couple,. my wife discovered that she is a sexual submissive and prefers to be dominated by her "bull",..while i'am able enjoy HIS wife sexually without guilt or jelousy from my wife afterwards.
in fact our relationship has grown so much that only last August we attempted our first "cross-seeding" (without success).,.it seems that we have indeed "fallen" in love with our bedmates to the point of wanting to forefill our devotion with each other fully ,..

this was a personal choice that works for US,.. but OPEN and HONEST communication will also help you in YOUR predicament.

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