new to black men
 

this might be a kinda dumb question but as someone who isn't very experienced what is some general advice that people give?

Take it slow. Dont rush anything and make sure your having fun. Thats general idea of what advice you should have. There is more though but it depends on what your looking for if you got a bf or husband and where you want this to go.

I think the most important thing is for you to be you and to have some fun with it.

Hi there.I'm new as well,so I'd be interested in any help you get as well

hey thnx for the response...i have a bf but im not interested in him being involved like some women like lol...i want it to be more private

ok that is a private thing. I mean it is cheating but thats your life. Just make sure you will know that seperating sexual pleasures will make it hard to stay in a relationship.
See what he says. Just pass it off to him in a casual manner. He might go for it. He might not.

Like I said take it slow and see where it goes.

Leave your inhibitions at the door

good advice ,..take it slow ,.enjoy yourself and most important,..be safe.

for my wife and i we swap with long time friends we KNOW are D/D free,..please have fun but use caution

i guess one thing more specific i should have asked is how/where to meet black men?

Again its like meeting any other guy. Its not like there is a special place really. Well there is both online like this place. but CL is another that you could try. Many discreet encounters ads out there.