what is wrong with this lifestyle
 

husband and i are members here. we love and live this lifestyle.what has us upset is why do we have a chance of loosing our jobs because we like this lifestyle that is not fair we have to post pix and clips not showing our faces. and at times we do hate when others download our pix t spread on the net . if we knew u would download them and keep them for you to look at. that would make life better at least we would know. my boss is not going to see me. so maybe we could start out by doing that. what a concept honesty. its so sad that we love this life style soooooo much and yet we are afraid to express our selfs the way we want to i have to have a private profile for just friends. because of trust. i wais u all could se how we live our life but u cant beacuse of fear. what a sad place we live in. do any other couples feel like this and how can we change it help tired of the blur on my face

Don't do it then!!
 

Listen silly, if you feel that you will lose your job(s) over this, then DO NOT PUT YOURSELF ON DISPLAY FOR THE WHOLE WORLD TO SEE YOU!!!

Please use basic common sense.:mad:

ur missig the point. we want to post but my job will not allow it dont you think i know what you said silly

ur reply .was as if i had a flat tire and did not know how to fix it. you walk up and say ohhhhh silly just fix it. but u did reply thanks

If your boss sees this he was looking for it. How is he going to explain that away?

love it
 

we love it and would make a whole of videos and let the whole world pay to see them but its not to be. the vanilla world doesn't like it. or do they but say they dont

We are the same way. My wife is in local government and I own a large business in town. Because of these issues we have to travel away for fun. My wife has 3 lovers in a town 2 hrs away qnd we go there twice a week to play. It gets old but ee love the lifestyle soooo much.

ummmmm its not my boss its how it got to my boss lol i cant say what i do for a living im in the public eye with kids mmmmmmmm and we all had to do it at one time guess what i do lol

I know how you both feel. I am a white guy, and I have no shame or regret about this lifestyle but its a pretty fucking judgemental world we live in.

Hi nybbw, I downloaded some of your videos and have been showing them to my wife. I hope that's ok because she has started asking me to play them while we fool around. We both love the dialog between the three of you during your sessions, but especially the things "you" say. Me, I've been a "wannabe cuck" for almost 10 years but since we've moved to hawaii I've gained the courage to tell my wife how I feel. We now have a realistic black cock that she named "Derek" and finally she is now openly discussing the possibility of this lifestyle becoming a reality for us. Your video's have played a big part in this. So I just wanted to say 'thank you' and we hope everything works out ok for yah. It's your lifestyle (and soon to be ours), and people should respect that and focus on their own.

Little Minds
 

Me thinks that one reason some people are so judgmental about others sexual lifestyles is because they do not have a sex life of their own. Or if they do they are so ashamed by it that they suppress it. Since they are not having any fun they don't want anyone else to either. I do not broadcast my sexual preferences because I think it no one elses business, on the other hand, I would be outright livid if my sexuality were grounds for punishment by one of the assholes described above.

Losing the taboo attraction
 

Sympathy for the bother and worry of keeping your activities secret. I know what you mean as do my playmates over years.

Perhaps this may soften the blow. If part of the lifestyle's attraction for you is the taboo attached to black on white sex, which may be part for you or not, having the lifestyle generally accepted would mean that "kick" from doing the taboo would be gone.

So, maybe you have to be careful what you ask!

Nicely Put, irfunseeker! NYbbw's videos have been very influential for my wife and me and we think if people have a problem with NY, then they should move on and let everyone else have fun. What a drag all this must be for her. :(

By the way, is nybbwwife4blks still monitoring this thread? I really would like to get in touch. :)

Me personally, I have my share of pics, but I don't post, because I am tired of having people on here who have 2000 pics, but none are of them. So, to avoid picture collectors, I don't post.

Nothing wrong with the lifestyle !
 

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your lifestyle choice. The world is full of narrow minded red necked type people that's the problem.

Aloha Chocdk, this may be why my wife and I aren't invited into private folders very often. We only have one pic. We'll definitely remedy that though. Really, thanks a lot for your eye opening comment because this might be why nybbw won't invite us.

fkn love this site!!!

peace...

Aloha! We agree with the other guy..... "DON'T" do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. This is about having fun :) . Hey, also hope you got our private response.

We're getting better at this, I'll posting more soon but wanted to send a special ALOHA for NYBBW.....