Advice Needed
 

THANKS I'll take the advice and see what happens.

sounds like its going well. If your wife is curious and your ok with it and there is a guy interested. Why not tell your wife that she should go for it.

You could play what ifs all the time but there is an underlying idea of being with a black man. If this guys offering in a way thats subtle and you two think its more. then decide for you two if its something you want her to explore. If she likes it it might be a whole new world for you guys.

I say let her persue it with no strings. see where it goes.