Getting my girl friends more into and accepting of black guys
 

I have been into interracial dating and meetings since I have started to date when younger in high school to in college now and I notice alot of girls not only friends but others I come across in conversations about guys and dating in general are sort of closed minded about dating black guys but at the same time they are accepting of it? That sounds a bit strange but im finding that alot of them are interesting in meeting and getting with black guys and maybe even dating some but there seems to be a stigma out there about dating outside of your race and alot of women are very hesitant to do it even though alot of them seem very curious and want to but just pass it over or act shy and distance themselfs from it and ignore their feelings and emotions about it..

Well I want to change that and open all their eyes to what they are missing and I wont be forceful or anything but I wont stop talking about it until they are all more accepting of it and stop seeing it as something taboo or anything and they all start to act on their feelings and emotions on the matter and start to meet more black men and stop ignoring them for flings or for dating even since they are missing out on how cool and nice they are overall and not just more enjoyable in the bedroom! I have already spoken to some of my close friends who have thought about it and wanted to act on it but they have not had the courage so I have been giving them more information and stuff on some guys I know that they can meet and see if they like and have setup some group type setting dates with a few or so friends and guys at my apartment and im going to invite other girlfriends on different nights to meet some of the same guys and a few others to see if they have any chemistry together and hopefully this works out well and my friends will have the flings they are after or maybe even find some lasting relationships! Also I have talked to girls I odnt know very well yet about it and have changed their mind about some things they though about them that were not true like they only go after and like certain types of girls and all that garbage so I could brings more interracial pairings together and im also planning a few other party type meetings and have done a few things already the past few months and got one of my close friends to meet a cool black guy she has been dating for awhile now and things are getting serious with them so im seeing that these types of things work and im going to do all I can to get more stuff out thewre to break the stigma about white girls dating black guys and hopefully I can change things! But I was also thinking that together we are stronger and can achieve more! I was wondering if others are doing similar things also? or maybe some of you had some more ideas or thoughts to give me on how I can help change the minds of some of my friends and also help other girls that im recently meeting who are curious and wonder about black guys but dont really bother to act on those feelings because they feel its a taboo subject or their familys would not approve of them doing that so they avoid it, and suggestions thoughts or even encouraging comments would be great! thanks for reading my post just a few ideas im putting out there for now!

Hi Emily,
I am a freshman at a Tennessee university and have been dating black guys since my junior year in high school. Interracial dating is still very much frowned on here but I have had several friends over for meet and greets at my apartment. I have discovered that a sizeable number of my friends are curious and open to meeting black guys, especially if they can do so with a reasonable amount of privacy. These "meet and greets" have worked out well and are a lot of fun. They are informal and I invited guys I know from the community and usually the guys will ask if they can invite a friend or two. I try to keep the numbers within reason because of space.

Katie

Thats great! I just had another meet and greet friday night and it went great! my friends wer eimpressed wiht the guys and the guys seemed to like most of my friends even more so my friends Kristen, Nicole and Natalie they all gave their numbers to guys they met and two or them already have dates for the dinner and a movie type thing for next week! and I have been talking to other girls who are interested in meeting some black guys but just dont know where to meet them and feel strange if they have to go up and talk to them on their own so im already planning some new meets! We need more girls like us spreading the word to our white friends about black guys and we also need to get the whole taboo frowned upon thing out of the way and let girls know that its normal and more and more girls are hooking up with and dating black men so keep doing what you are doing and spread the word! I know im trying to do all I can in my free time between work and classes at school! :)

Emily, we do something similar at my apartment. Several black guys and a few of my friends will come over and mix and mingle. It usually turns out well, and leads to at least to some fun times.

Things have been working out so great lately, I dont know what to say! Have been busy with school and work and meeting new guys and introducing girls to black guys I know and I have formed new relationships some of them are dating now! Everyone make sure to keep joining interracial couples together so more and more people see this is not just some odd thing you only see from girls who cant get a date anywhere else but this is what WE ALL choose and it snot going away..ever! :)

The Peace/Piece Prize
 

Seriously, you two should be awarded the Nobel White Women for Black Men prize/award for your efforts. I don't have a problem meeting white people or white women in particular, but for those of us that do, we thank you. Hope everything works out with your newfound friends = )

Thanks alot almondjoy! we are trying to do our best just wish we had even more girls in my area who wanted to come out! anyone if you live near Boston let me know in a private message and we can talk on the phone about you coming out to one of the meets, we meet often! Just got some pictures put up from last Saturday, Mike is a friend of mine dating my friend Tasha I asked him if I could post a picture of him with our group of girls and a picture of him and his Girlfriend Tasha together to promote what we are doing and he said sure great! so here is a picture of some of the girls who come out to meet black men! 4 of them are dating black guys right now and 2 are single and 1 of the girls just got out of a long term relationship with a white guy and shes interested in interracial dating but shes a bit shy so were bringing her in slowly..maybe some of you can come help me with that, message me for details if you want to meet her! lol! here are the pictures below!

Omg our meets have been going soo good lately! Thanks to all the new girls coming out to meet the guys there are now 5 more mixed race couples seriously dating and hopefully more soon! I have not been on for a bit busy with school but I replyed to your messages girls send me a email to arrange coming to our meeting or give me a phone call or text me since I also put my cell phone number in my reply messages! Cant wait for you all to come out and meet the cute guys at the bar then come to the private house party! Also black guys if you are near Boston or can get to the area for next month first weekend saturday in march send me a message and I can tell you what bar to meet us at so you can meet the ladies and see who you get along best with! :)

Do you have a facebook link for these meets

Emily, your parties sound fun. Mine are not so elaborate or organized, but they are fun when I have them. A couple of weeks ago, I had a few friends ove, with a couple of the girls never having dated black guys. But that has changed now :)

Hi Emily,
That is great news that your get togethers are a success. It looks like you are doing a wonderful job at helping get more girls interested at IR dating. I admire your passion for the subject, and understand your reasons and intentions for wanting to see and get more white women interested in dating black men. You have had great experiences being with black men, on probably many different levels, and you want other women to experience what they are missing out on. You should definetly be commended for that.
I, too, fully and strongly support helping more white women get together with black men, for the same reasons. I notice how women seem to be thoroughly pleased and satisfied when they are around and with black men, and I also would like to help more women be able to experience that. Being a guy and white, I have no personal investment in this other than I love seeing women so satisfied and pleased.
You asked for suggestions or advice to help you get more white girls to begin dating interracially. On another website, I became almost like an interracial dating and sex counselor for white women. I literally talked to and helped dozens of white women with encouragement to try IR dating. Women love to talk about this subject with other women who have been with black guys, but most of them told me that it was such a nice change and very reassuring to them to hear a white guy giving them words of encouragement for them to go black.
So keep doing the great job that youre doing and I am certain your efforts will help many other white girls go black. The more that people communicate about this the more common it will be and less of a stigma or taboo. There are more white women getting together with black men than ever before and it does seem to be quickly spreading like wildfire. Parents are more open minded and supportive of daughters going black. Us white guys can be a huge help, I think, in reassuring, even encouraging, them to go black.

Reqruiting
 

Hi Emily,

It was very exciting for me to see this post. Much like both you and Katie, I'm also one who really enjoys helping other curious girls/women into the Interracial Lifestyle, but for me, it's mostly through email. Yes, I have recruited a few local girlfriends and there's nothing more exciting than helping someone you really know who gets blacked for the first time...

I've been very seriously involved in the Interracial Lifestyle for more than 17 years now and because I enjoy it so much, I can't help but to spread the word in hopes that others might find what I have found with black men. And for the past number of years, I have joined a number of different Interracial sites and really enjoy chatting and sharing stories with others who are either already involved or with those who are curious about having sex with a black man (or men.) I'm not one who comes on to make anyone think I'm a profression councelor or anyone like that as I feel it's very important for everyone to know that whatever I say is strictly based only from my own personal experience or what I have heard from others who are also involved. No, I haven't talked all of my contacts into it, but I will say that once a white woman starts thinking about it enough to start chatting with others about it, that's the first step in helping her along the way to finally fulfill her black fantasy into reality...and without bragging about it, I've helped a number of them into it and it's so damn exciting to me once this happens.

Since I've been doing this, I'm amazed with how many women have this black fantasy and especially amazed at WHO some of them are.... meaning that some of them are somewhat Highly successfull women and some even High Society status who you would never believe they have what I call "Jungle Fever"...

Anyway, I just wanted to tell you that I'm very happy to hear that both you and Katie are also trying to recruit as many white girls as you can and if you don't mind, please keep us all informed on your progress

Janice

Hi Emily, Yeah I'm from Boston and would love to meet up with you and your friends sometime. Let me know when the next meetup is. Thanks

Meet-Ups
 

Hi Emily,

I just joined and I'm super impressed by what you've accomplished. I would love to be apart of your meet-ups. I am in my 30's and its hard for me to meet WF anywhere in MA. I just moved back the NY area and its hard to find cool places to hang out. Please let me know what bar you intend to hang out and when so I can be a part of your story.

Thanks again.

Hiya Kevmitch333 Welcome! Thanks for bumping the topic and replying to it with your interest! I have been mostly telling local guys about the meets in private messages lately since thats how most contact me and giving them the details for the meets and setting them up giving them a bit of a back story on the girls who will be there and what their personalitys are like and the type of stuff they are into so you can get in a conversation with her as soon as possible to see if you match or not and decide to talk to another girl! All of the girls in the photo I posted from a meet on the first page of the topic are all dating black guys now and are coupled up in some flings and relationships with guys, there have only been three new girls at our meets the last three weeks and our last meet was May18 and the next is planned for May25 or it might be May26.

One girl cant make it for sure but I think I know who you might like who will be there for sure! I will give you some info on her now and you can message me for the rest if you want to come meet her and shes also open to meeting other black guys as well since shes has been with some already and is very open about meeting some more. Shes in school now and works part time giving massages so does not have lots of free time besides the weekends and for the meets, she has been coming to the meets for ahwile and has been with alot of the guys at the meets after when we go to have private time and everyone gets to know each other better so shes experienced that way with the guys in bed but has not been able to hit it off fully with anyone yet personbality wise. Shes 24, 5'1 tall and is very fit and petiet she plays alot of sports like Basketball and beach volleyball and going to clubs meeting new people, shes had alot of flings and is looking for experience with more but is also looking for a possible long term relationship but if not then hooking up is good enough for now! We are good friends and have talked about it alot and shes black cock dedicated and not shy about it and has been very open to me about the guys she likes at the meet and wants private bedroom time with so im trying to find her a match! She also is going to sign up for this website when I told her about it and said it was ok to post a picture of her here to attract more guys so im posting her picture taken last week at a meet in the bedroom, it was before she had some private time in the bed behind her I could hear them from the living room after I took the pic lol! would have posted pics of her in bed but its called private time for a reaosn people cant show all the fun here you have to come see for yourselfs guys Lol!
reply here and I will contact you or message me for the rest of the info! Here is her picture, reply if you like her and want to Hookup with her at a meet to talk to her and have some private time with her guys!
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Just wanted to let all you guys know the next Meeting Date is set for June 9 then the saturday after also on June 16 for another meet, thanks for the private messages and interest for those who have sent me a message for more info! Always looking for new guys to come out to the event and after party so you should reply or message me for more info if you want to meet the girls coming out and the girl in the picture above this post is still very available!

More Encouragement from a white guy
 

I admire your courage and want to share one additional piece of encouragement that white women need and that is for white men to give them the green light. Please share this post with your friends and let them know that we white men totally understand and accept their need for black men. In fact, we find it totally sexy to see a beautiful white woman, who we rarely have success with anyway, get turned on by and taken by a black stud. We only wish we had what it takes to win these ladies.

At 45 years old, I was first shocked and somewhat appalled that a white woman would want a black guy, after all, most of us were raised to keep to our own and that blacks were untrustworthy and downright scary. But as society has changed with desegregation and acceptance of other cultures, we have become used to the black culture more and more. Now you see white women not only accept black men, but now are dating them in increasing numbers.

As they go out on dates, they have sex with their dates, and when they experience a bbc they are not only turned on by the taboo factor, but they are literally opened up deeper than they have ever been and are treated with loving care. We are confident that you will be treated by most black men with the upmost dignity and will be cherished like a rose. Your bodies with be loved like you have never known before and you will realize that black men and white women are on a track to become the future norm of male/female relationships.

The point I am trying to stress is that while we are jealous of this attraction and course of events, we realize that resistance is futile and it is probably for the best that white women get to be fulfilled sexually and given the security of having an alpha male to protect them. While some of us are tough, most white guys are wimps compared to the superior black man. We also want the black man to feel encouraged to go for and take the white women- you deserve them and they deserve you.

So share this story and tell your friends that society is behind you- we want you to experience the best in life so go for that bbc. Go out and have fun, have sex with the black man. Experience him and let him take you to the highest high, but remember the saying, "once you go black, you'll never go back."

Thanks for shareing your story and input! Actually I have come across some guys like you who are in theirs 20s even who support and fully agree with interracial dating and hook ups only for girls, one of my good friends even meets girls at places or online even and he goes out with them only to convince them that they should date and be with a black man even if he has to go on three or four dates as friends (he does not sleep with them or anything, to him they are only for black men) to convince them to start dating black men only more mainly, and he is a good looking tall athletic white guy but he is just really into that lifestyle for girls he also has black friends and does what he can saying even if he gets one girl to start dating only black men he has done his job! From what I have heard he has got more then a few girls to switch over so thats great news! The biggest thing is for guys to do their part also, us girls can do alot and talk to girls more freely and openly but sometimes a girl needs to hear that is Okay from a white guy..I have also had girls who were on the fence about it talk to my friend and he convinced them when I think they might have turned away and that would have been too bad since they turned out to be some of the ones who had the most fun! :)

Man does this have me HARD and wackin' !!!!!

I'm new so bere with me folks. Trying to get my gal to turn over on this whole issue. Been burning with me for a while., What makes me hard is she looks just like the one gal in the pink jersey!! I'll prove it too, let me get some more pics loaded. ****PLEASE keep me up to date on her!! I hope pics of her and her activities will help me with my goals. Is she Scandiavian decent by chance?!? Mine is and VERY similar features. Shy. EMILYh please keep me up to date with her because I think it will help me and our similar cause.****

Seperately does anyone reading this know about the Cuckold coach?? There's a big write-up on how to get women to do this to men! You decide on what type of cuck you want to be, there's a lot of detail I understand. Women get lead into it I guess. I started a thread or forum post thing on it and no one's visited yet. Anyone??? Help the cause here people !! All you readers who proclaim your support.

Anyone have books or specific info on this subject? Not tricks or the cheap so-called 'challenge' onetime thing, but actual tactics, aids, guides, checklists, methods, etc

I'm thinking pictures of babes that look like her doing what I know she has done before and at the beginning of dating me, but that's a whole 'nother story. (I know she's had plenty of one nighters and from things she's said, and have come out through friends - I'm 95%+ sure she's been with a black). It's getting her past her hangups of the sharing thing I think. I want in the loop with whatever develops. Should I act like I want another woman? The lez way will not work for her. ADVICE PLS!

Oh, pls check out my photos folks, too extreme?

Oh PS - anyone have any cuckolding porn referrals that look like the girl in the pink hoodie PLEASE I emplore you - let me know. For her to see a gal who looks like he so much would get her gushing! Now I'm off to get a pic of the hottie I'm talking about and hope I find this again - wish me luck :)

What website were you counseling all the white women?

The gal in the Pink Jersey! Glad you took notice of her, She has been with some new black men at our meets the last two Saturdays and went home with another Sunday since they exchanged numbers and met since they did not get any alone time saturday and hooked up then! I think she mentioned her mother was Dutch and her father another european descent nearby so you might be right since she has alot of those fetaures the guys really cant get enough of. Keep you up to date with her? well she has been very active when we meet after the club and the girls go to rooms with the guys for (Private Time) she has been getting alot

I don't take picture or anything but last week they were in there really late when the other girls had already left so I peeked in and saw he was still with her she was on the bottom breathing heavy making some noise so I closed the door and they came out about a half hour later looking satisfied, might be able to get a bit of a video of her for you during the act since shes very open and it seems like it might help your case so send me a message and I will email you some more pics and possible vid of her.

You ask about a Coach..well it seems like you need to let her know its okay and get her into it, and you said she has a past, try and bring that side out dont let her think its gone in the past and moved on let her know she can still act on her wild side, you dont have to trick or make one time challenge dares just keep working with her geting her interested and that there are nice black guys out there who want to be with her for a good time, dont force or push just let her come along at her own pace, some can be fast some take years to convince. Also do you watch sports or anything alot when shes around or coming home from work? If you can find a black guy to come over for a meet or greet or who is willing to spend time coming over as your friend to watch the football or basketball game she can get comfortable around him and get to know him then you can let her know hes interested and since she knows him a bit she is not as shy and more open! I know of a friend he used this tactic when his girlfriend was really unsure and shy and a bit scared even and she got used to him being around and talking to him and one day she was ready and he came in (with the lights off) she was still shy, to her bedroom where she was waiting and he had sex with her and had fun with it and was very outgoing and she loosened up and started to sleep with him on a regular basis and even met some new guys! The best thing is to keep trying and dont give up, even if we can get a few more girls with black guys who would have never considerd it in their lifetime then we are doing our job!

Supportive white guy
 

Hi Emilyh,

Just wanted to say that I support what you are doing with your meetings helping to get more white girls to be with black men. I think what you are doing is very admirable. You are helping more white women experience how much better sex and relationships can be with black men. I hope you can continue to have many more frequent meetings and get lots more women to go black. You and many other girls like you that I have talked to who are doing this is awesome, but you are very right, the biggest thing is for more of us white guys to do our part to help many more white women go black and give them the reassurance and support that they need from us to let them know it is ok.

I am alot like the guy friend you described. I chat everyday with many women (not just white, but Latina, Asian, even one Pakistani woman) and I give them the support and encouragement that they are looking for. I have even helped introduce several women to some black men friends that I know from online. Both the men and women are very appreciative and thankful for my help and assistance in introducing them together. I also think it is wonderful for me to help these girls and women out to go black. I help them out, not with any intentions of my own to get with them, but because I want to help convince them that getting with a black guy would be such a great experience for them. I would much rather help a girl have sex with a black guy than for me to try to have sex with her myself, because I know that thye will enjoy sex much better with a black man, and like your friend, I think it much better that pussy is better left for black men. They are so much better at handling and dealing with pussy how the women like it.

I would love to exchange messages with you if I can so we may be able to share ideas on how to get more white (and others) women to try and go black.

Good luck
 

I applaud you for you efforts. I somepeople have to take their time and gradually build up to it. The thing is, I sure hope rhe first time is a great time when they do decided to date blacl men. If its not a good experience, they may never do it again. So if you're letting them meet black men you know, make sure you really know them so it'll be a good experince for your friends.

Thanks alot glad I can get the message out there not just to girls but the guys also! we have been meeting alot lately, got some new girls to join the group and some black men also on the prowl glad to say I hooked alot of people up this summer for great sex! wish I had more time to visit here and post but with school and work and getting girls ready to meet the guys its hard to post often, keep messaging me guys so I can give you the details on the next meet up time and location. Thanks to all the guys from here who been coming out and meeting the girls and helping them open up and relax a bit more around black men and explore that side of their curiosity showing them that its not difficult to do and you guys are here for them!

Keep up the good work
 

The world needs more people like you! A couple that plays together stays together!

Thanks! and thanks to all the guys who have been sending me messages the past few days telling me what you thought of the Halloween Party meet we just had! It was great seeing all the new girls meet the guys and some of the new guys who came out also to meet at the club then came back to the apartment for alone time with some girls while others who met went to other places to get to know each other better! ;) Daryl had some great alone time with the girl I posted before, she is still looking to hookup with some more black guys so if you think shes cute and you want info on our next meet ask here or send me a message for the location time and other details, here is her picture she wanted me to post and show you guys from the party, Daryl took it laying in bed undressing her just before he took off her top, she was dressed as a Pumpkin as you can tell lol and was in a orange skirt as well that night, want to meet her and other girls like her? we are planning a meet for November17 Saturday night at 8pm come meet us! muah
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How did the last meeting go?

It went great thanks! lots of new guys so that was great, my friend even met a few new guys that she has been seeing aside from our meets so thats exciting im happy she has them in her life now to give her all that she needs! not sure when the next meet will be..holiday and new years and all everyones busy but keep meeting on your own! Tell your black friends there are women who want to meet them and that white girls dont have to be so shy about wanting to be with a black man all the time, its fully natural!!

Hi Emily! Great to hear your last meet was a success. Hope you have another one soon and you are able to hook up many more white girls and black guys. I am always giving my encouragement to help more white girls and black guys get together.

OMG! It has been awhile since I posted on here, been using facebook and stuff like that and talking on other forums and on the phone alot with black guys and arranging meet ups when not so busy with school! The reason I came back here was for my friend who has been seeing black men for awhile now and has been recently dating and looking for flings but also a possible long term relationship so besides facebook and other forums she asked me to post here also for her! Hopefully some of you hot guys are interested in meeting her and hanging out and then having some fun if you are along the east coast or willing to come travel to be at one of our parties! Here are her recent pictures, would you be interested in hooking up with her for some fun? send me a message to set something up or reply below if you want to enjoy her!

you are a chick with a dick
 

that`s why you post unsuspecting women`s photos instead of your own on here.

All pics on your profile are web finds. :D

I fully agree - great of you to guide other girls. I feel that all white women/girls should be encouraged to go black. That's the way it should be. Keep on doing what you do.

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