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[bbbrian1230]

I have been wanting to see my wife blacked. She has talked about it. She dirty dances with guys in the club. We swapped before, but not with black. We have came close a couple of times. I have been being very patient so as not to rush. But it seems like it won't happen unless I push. How do I do this with out being to pushy, but not giving up??

[MacNfries]

bbbrian1230, I have a few questions and a few comments regarding your desire, ok?
First, have you and your wife played with other guys (of any race) before?
Has your wife ever indicated she would like to be with other guys ... blacks particularly?
What are your wife's sexual fantasies ... has she ever shared them with you?

If she will have sex with other guys, then your road to getting her to have sex with black men may be easier. If she's reluctant to have sex with other men, in general, you're going to have some work ahead of you. You're being wise NOT to push the subject with her. Women look at sex from a different perspective than men ... men see sex and emotions separately ... women prefer sex and emotions together.

My wife and I are swingers ... we really prefer 3-ways ... both MMF & FFM. The best way I have found to set my wife up with another man is to make a general comment to the male(s) I've selected, saying something like "I'm trying to fulfill a couple of my wife's sexual fantasies" and then wait for a response from the guy(s) you are with ... they'll want to know what her sexual fantasies are. Once you tell them, let the subject drop. If they are interested, and they usually are, they'll volunteer their services. But you don't want to flat out ASK them ... let them volunteer. If they take the hint, you got her set up. Its worked for me several times. Mac

[JOHNFLOW]

In my case i worked up to it with her. But at some point you just have to ask her. Do you want to try this? Then you have to go from there. If NO..then try and find out why and work on how to address her doubts and work on them. I know my wife was worried about what guys would think of her body. So i found a guy and had her talk to him about it and things got better. Just make sure you make her feel comfortable about it. Good Luck