I'm a watcher..
I find it very erotic to watch my wife be seduced by another man. I feel the excitement of the unknown, a bit like when your on the 1st date or the 1st time alone with a woman.

It's like watching a movie. Watching him run his game to see if she will let him seduce her. To see another man give her pleasure is too much.
To watch her allow him to put his had up her skirt. To watch her spread her legs just a little to give him complete access. To watch her reach into his pants to pull out his tool.
Will she make him wear a condom this time or will she take it off in the middle of the event.
Where will he cum? Will she make him pull out? too much to think about.

I don't desire to touch another male but I have been underneath while he has taken her doggy. I could see his cock move in and out and his nuts where just missing my forehead.
one or two incidental contacts were expected but I only wanted to be close.

This is very much how my husband Bill and I are and in no way is he gay, just the pleasure of sometimes watching me enjoy myself with a person we have both come to accept as a trusted friend and frequent visitor to our home.

My wife and I have never tried BBC but have talked about it several times. While I agree with the others that it is strictly to watch. Can any of you say that it has helped stimulate the marriage and the wife has become more sexually active with the husband?

like to watch
 

I would like to watch and get turned on by my wife having a much larger cock than mine in her and hearing hear moan and saying how much she likes it. I always talk to her about this but can't get her to agree to have a bbc. She worked with black guys and told me a story about a coworker who had to do put his arms around her for choking (first aid class) and she told me she felt his semi hard on her behind and it turned her on because she told me it seemed huge. She also tells me I might get my wish, but she might also do it behind my back,which I would not want. I know she would like to have a BBC in her, but don't know how to start. I was thinking going to a bar and asking a black guy to compliment her and seduce her - what do you think?

nope - i'm not a gay, not a femme or a twink just a nasty, sloppy adventuresome guy - for me, it is ALL good. send me down to eat a creampie anytime - i'd suck his dick just to get him hard again for more play, i'd let him suck mine if he wanted to. whatever, not so much into sub/dom...maybe a little here or there every once and a awhile but really, i want to see my girl unleash herself as a total cock and cum slut and want to just play like the romans - have crazy sexy, sloppy fun until everyone collapses.

Okay, you ar not gay but you would suck a guys dick, let him suck yours and eat his cum? I love watching black men have their way with my wife, i love to take pictures and videos, i love hearing them talk dirty but I am sorry...if you want to perform sexual acts on a guy or would let him perform them on you maybe youare not gay bu you are DEFINITELY bisexual. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

I enjoy telling my slut wife what I want her to wear then handing her over so i can watch her get fucked. She loves to suck cock then lift her dress and bend over on all 4. I do enjoy sloppy seconds but thats as far as I go. It is so hot watching another guy fuck your wife.

With you all the way man... I loved finding the guy I wanted to fuck her... then let him lose... sometimes they thought they were the big dominant 'hero'... but in reality my wife and I were enjoying them!!!

not gay
 

we are still trying to find the right black guy to fuck my wife and i am not gay or bi. were not into cream pie eating or any type of non-hetero stuff.

I would fit that category. Certainly not gay...Certainly not Bi either. I have no attraction to having sex with a black guy. Now watching my wife do it, that's another story.