I didnt realize
 

Im 39 and have been dating black men on and off since I was 16, I have two teenage daughters that are bi racial. Ive been on this site for the last couple hours reading some of these forums. I didnt know there was so many people that viewed ir like that. Im a submissive by nature, im attracted sexually to aggressive men, im kinda into the "takin" it thing black men hsve the tendency of doin, I even enjoy being busted in (it makes me cum harder lol). But I like being in a relationship with a black man, and just because ur black doesnt mean ill fuck you. I guess I never realized that so many people felt differently. Im not being judgemental, im just surprised is all. I never knew having mixed children was so important to people. It was something that just happened with me, I dont think it was something I planned on doin. I have to say this has definetly been an enlighyening experience.

so how is that you see people viewing IR on the forums you read thru? you mean they viewed it like you? or differently from you? i'm confused. lol!

Please be more detail.....
 

Please be more detail in your statement. Your statement is not tell us what you did not realize.

Realize what? Please be more detail!!!:mad

Thank you mustang, im sorry I didnt explain myself better earlier but yes, I guess im surprised that so many people view interracial dating as a sport. I love black men, not just because their black, I wouldnt date somebody just because they are black. I want the whole experience, I want a relationship, I want to be loved. I have biracial children, but I didnt have them just to have black babies. It just seems to me that alot of people on this site dont have alit of emotional attachments. And I guess I am surprised by that. I love sex as much as the next person, but dont feel like I have to have alot of different partners to do it. Not that im trying to be judgemental or anything, I was just more shocked than anything.

there's a lot of people who want serious interracial relationships as well, just not on this site this site is more towards casual/recreational sex.

Yeah and I guess I just didnt realize lol, its cool tho, to each their own.