Is it ok not to fuck black men
 

I like to wear my Queen of Spades necklace my husband made when we go out. I like to fantasize about a black men when we are having sex but is it ok if I keep this just a fantasy?

Queen of Spades
 

In reality, thats your choice ... Why wear (advertise) the necklace if you are not interested ..?

act on it
 

If this is a true fantasy and you and your husband love each other, why not tell him. He should be able to accept it and he might even like it. You never know.