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[AlinaM]

It's a bit of both!!

[breedingwife4cuckold]

Originally Posted by SpectreFox

So I was wondering to myself earlier, what do women in this lifestyle prefer? I've seen some say they just want to fuck bbc because they can 'make love' anytime with their husbands, and some say they like to make love to/with their lover. What do you ladies here prefer? An intimate boyfriend/girlfriend experience or straight "business?" Or does it depend on the guy, your mood, etc.? I'm mostly talking about 1-on-1 encounters, as gangbangs would be the latter.

Most always, just want the FUCK.... mutual foreplay makes me want to Fuck more & Harder!
There are times tho when my husband encourages me to kiss my BBC Bulls "deeply"... He really strokes his cock when I have a black cock in my pussy & a black mans tongue deep in my mouth!

[Seshnum]

Isn't it called seduction, not intimacy. And yes any woman would need both.

[Countrygirljill]

For me it mostly when I'm in the mood for something different or the thought of a BBC inside of me gets me worked up. When either of these happen it's just for the sex and nothing more.

[JandGinSD]

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

[Mustang Alley]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

Spot on!!! Gotta have all the above.

[ThickNiggaDick]

Originally Posted by JandGinSD

I can't imagine other women choosing that except maybe to manage some distance to preserve their primary relationships with their husbands. For me, inviting any man to share at that level comes with some emotional investment. I am certain that it's just not me; most of us gals are wired this way. Intimacy and passion are integral to the shared experience. If it was purely mechanical, I wouldn't want it. After all, there are risks in taking new sex partners. Might as well play with sex toys. I need intimacy, passion, and romance along with it to make it completely worthwhile.

This really validates one of the many emotional differences between men and women that I learned about many moons ago. A woman craves intimacy or "closeness" to a man in order to fully enjoy having sex with him. Whereas, on the other hand, a man craves sex with a woman in order to feel that same "closeness" to her.

Neither of these emotions is "better" or "worse" than the other. It's just the way we are naturally wired as men and women. And the beautiful thing about it is this. Although the male and the female "equations" here look different, the goal that each man and woman who are sexually attracted to each other wants to achieve is exactly the same. Intimacy. Closeness.

Men want that too ladies. Very much so! We just express ourselves about it differently. Now, TMV is 100% right. There is indeed a lesson here for men. BUT, there is also a lesson here for women too! So many women think they already understand men, but so many women absolutely do not. They really, really, really don't.

Both men AND women need to take time out to really learn about and understand what makes the other gender tick. When both men and women do that, they just might be shocked to discover that they're actually both trying to achieve the exact same thing when it comes to sex. Romance. Intimacy. Closeness. They just have a different way of showing it is all.

[syft09]

Originally Posted by Seshnum

Isn't it called seduction, not intimacy. And yes any woman would need both.

seduction is when you are on the path of attraction NOT wile your putting meat in a lovely womans holes... be it intimate love making: the act of expressing a connection
fucking: the act of expressing an attraction

BOTH are emotional yet the types arent the same

its a BODY attraction when any woman wants bbc
and its the comfort of blending in daily life when they want
to be with a guy of their own race ... its simply

others ideals vs her pussy...
so if she makes love with a black guy
her social life n sex life are aligned
simple as that yet

personal stories have their own complications
each woman is different remember that

[blondeforreal_2]

Originally Posted by SpectreFox

So I was wondering to myself earlier, what do women in this lifestyle prefer? I've seen some say they just want to fuck bbc because they can 'make love' anytime with their husbands, and some say they like to make love to/with their lover. What do you ladies here prefer? An intimate boyfriend/girlfriend experience or straight "business?" Or does it depend on the guy, your mood, etc.? I'm mostly talking about 1-on-1 encounters, as gangbangs would be the latter.

I need the intimacy no matter who-I like to be held-fondled -kissed. Sex is meaningless to me without that and would not satisfy me.

[gatorrdw]

My wife wanted both. She became very emotionally attached to the black man that lived with us for almost 3 years. She has a very difficult time when his employer transferred him across the country. It took several months for her to "get-over" him not coming home to her on a daily basis. So for her off and on over the years she would want intimacy and some times she just wanted "fucked". gatorrdw