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[babs275]

Originally Posted by pamelaelaine

I'm not complaining about any of it. I actually enjoy it all. I sure made some people mad, and I'm sorry for that. But I left my white husband for a black man of my own free will, after he brought another man (black) into our bed, of his own free will. That man had secretly lusted for me for years and he got me. No problem at all, I loved it.

Pammie

Your story reminds me of a posting on the old NiggerWorship.com forum. Somebody started a thread asking something about what it was like for the women and did they respect their husbands, etc. One, (I don't remember who) responded that she lost all respect for her husband and was very much hurt at first at the idea that he wanted to share her with someone else . . . period. She was hurt and saddened that he no longer had that special feeling for her and wanted to share her with anyone. IIRC, she also was hurt by what she felt was a lack of concern for her feelings as a person by assuming that she would want to be with someone else, etc.

She agreed to be with the other guy(s) because she felt like her marraige was essentially over the instant he wanted to share her with someone else and figured that she might as well enjoy the sex with other men and could make him happy at the same time.

I don't remember whether she had left him or not; but it was a sad posting. You could feel her hurt just reading it. She warned the fantasy husbands on the board to be careful what they wished for. Then she said something about being bummed out her post, (which I thought was totally understandable considering her experience), and left the thread.

Obviously, not every woman reacts that way. But it does point out what a dangerous position any spouse is in if they are the first one to broach the subject of adding anyone to their sex life. How is he/she going to react? Do they have the same understanding of your relationship that you do? Are they going to say, "Hell yeah! I was wondering when you were going to get around to it." or are they going to feel irretrievably rejected because you ever even thought it? Damn tricky spot.

[babs275]

Originally Posted by 2eassy

No.....not me.....unless its an agreed thing.....cheating can get ugly.....and i'm not into ugliness

And the occasional double murder-suicide. Bummer.

[Randall M]

Originally Posted by Tyrell.G

Sarah, I am a Bull. I don't provide a relationship beyond the bedroom. I fuck. I have only exclusively fucked married white women. I have turned down some very fine single women just because they aren't married. I don't want to be her new "black boyfriend" to throw in mommy & daddy's face. I don't want to talk about the future and where our relationship is going. I like to keep it simple. The best arrangement is for her white hubby to provide her with her emotional, social, and material needs.

I provide the fucking he can't give her. She needs and deserves better than 3 inches of little white dick. It's like having a beautiful Italian sportscar that you only drive to the store. A white princess is the same....you got to push her to her limits and see what she can do.

You white wives know what I'm talking about. You need someone in the drivers seat with the equipment and skill to really make that engine purr. 9 times out of 10...that ain't hubby.

Now here is a black bull with the right kind of philosophy..and insight into what so many white wives are seeking.

[funmikey1962]

Originally Posted by coffeeinmycream

The excitment of being with who can satisfy my needs, without the emotional bagage, is what attracts me, and the black men I screw appreciate that.

I have thought that I would not mind being if a full-time relationship, married or living together with one of my lovers, but, like one of the "bulls" said here, "I am just here to fuck white women", and that is all they want.

I have accepted that, and I can enjoy doing things that I would not normally do, for fear that my man would have no respect for me afterwards.

I am in love

[jimmielee]

Originally Posted by 87168

Well I can tell you from a personal stand point, I love to send vibes to married white women. For some reason it turns me on to know that I am secretly turning a married white woman on. I work for a cell phone company here in the US in one of the suburbs of Buffalo, NY. The majority of women that come on are white and mature. It's my weakness, so I make sure that I stand extra close when I'm showing them how to use their phone or going over their bill or something. Maybe "accidentally" allow then to catch me checking them out. Sometimes I'll even help them pair their phone to their car's bluetooth. Whenever I do that I make sure that my cock it visible though my dress pants and that I compliment them while performing my "work duties". I do it pretty often and a lot of them return, absent their husband so I can help them out. hahaha one even told me that her husband didn't like me because he thought I was hitting on her. He was right, but that didn't stop her from coming in again.

Too bad we are closer to Buffalo, I would luv for my wife to come to your store.

[ironmike500]

Married white women are the best. They are interested only in the sex. They are very agreeable. Many like it rough. Almost all are pretty submissive. You can pretty much fuck them how you want and then send them back home.

On occassion a married white women will start to get to friendly talk about leaving their husbands but that is where the relationship ends.

[wc4bbc]

In my expecrience, black men prefer any white woman, married or not they could care less as long as she takes good care of daddy.

[ebk1174]

Originally Posted by 87168

Well I can tell you from a personal stand point, I love to send vibes to married white women. For some reason it turns me on to know that I am secretly turning a married white woman on. I work for a cell phone company here in the US in one of the suburbs of Buffalo, NY. The majority of women that come on are white and mature. It's my weakness, so I make sure that I stand extra close when I'm showing them how to use their phone or going over their bill or something. Maybe "accidentally" allow then to catch me checking them out. Sometimes I'll even help them pair their phone to their car's bluetooth. Whenever I do that I make sure that my cock it visible though my dress pants and that I compliment them while performing my "work duties". I do it pretty often and a lot of them return, absent their husband so I can help them out. hahaha one even told me that her husband didn't like me because he thought I was hitting on her. He was right, but that didn't stop her from coming in again.

Include married Asian women as well. The men I feel know that we are direct and to the point, not a lot of time to waist

[delite001]

Originally Posted by SarahSweet

I was curious about this. When we first moved into the neighborhood where I stil live now, the majority of our neighbors were African- American. The very first day as I was carrying stuff into our apartment, I had a handsome young man hit on me! Despite the wedding ring I was wearing. I'd get hit on maybe half a dozen times a week by various guys. From casual talking, to innuendo filled conversation to very direct questioning of whether I would consider messing around with them (in VERY direct terms) What do you guys think?

I have had quite a few black men that wanted me for my size and shape, many liked not only the fact that I am married, but also that I am a mom. I kind of understood the married part and taking something that belongs to a white man, but the mother thing turns out to be another thing. In this instance it was the power of desecrating the "proper white mother" image by making me ,and other mothers they have used, beg and become sluts for their cocks. On top of that, even more so to be used in my own home where the "proper white mom" desecration is an even more powerful aphrodisiac and of course the verbal degradation for being the proper white mom submitting as a whore for their black dicks.

[Beyondthebassline]

I have had the distinct honour and pleasure of bedding a handful of married women (most of whom were pure multiple generation, ethnically closed-purebred caucasian blonde & redhead whites, others being brown latinas and Jamaican + East African dark skin blacks), some of whom engaged without their husbands knowing and others who were open about it... and the interactions, sex, and basic human connection was always easy, relaxed, drama-free, non-judgemental and very fun overall compared to interactions with unattached women of all races (of which I have had more than plenty to last a lifetime). Love married women.