]@ Jodi, guess ya don't wanna chat...

The next time you and your wife talk about one of her friends who is married to a black man you could joke "so where is your black boyfriend?" and see how she reacts. If you get your wife to go black and be open about it your daughters will be more likely to go black.

Ditto ditto ditto!!!...Becky

Thanks for the advice, but in truth my wife and daughters really dont need any help from me. My wife knows I would approve of her having a black lover. My daughters at school are surrounded by girls their age that have black bfs. Also, seeing how sex ed in our country is so screwed up and confusing to our young kids, my wife and I decided to do something different. Shortly after our oldest hit puberty, my wife provided her with a vibrator. My wife went out and picked out one herself for our daughter. Before she gave it to her, she showed me to see what I thought of it. It was a black one. I told her it had my approval. Then she pulled out another black one, but bigger. She said she needed a replacement for the old hot pink one she had.
So, the girls in my family are doing just fine on their own without needing any prodding from me.

I am also curious about the two different types white women who are going black these days.
One the one hand is the more mature and married ladies who are going crazy for bbc either with or without their husbands approval or knowledge.

Then there is the younger teens and college girls who love nothing but black men and have mostly sworn off having sex with white guys. This group of girls was raised at a time of more relaxed attitudes and probably dont see it much as a taboo the way the older generation of white women do. For the younger white girls it seems to be just a strong natural attraction to black men.

For mature white women, the strong natural attraction has always been there too, but they probably were prevented from acting on it the way todays younger white girls are doing because of how society frowned down upon it. I wonder if married white women are now taking arvantage of what they missed in their youth and are encouraged seeing how all younger white girls are going black?

One thing is for sure. There is a huge increase of white women in both groups who feel strongly drawn to wanting to have sex with black men. And since the feeling is strong and mutually felt by black men as well, there can be no stopping it. White guys need to accept and even encourage it.