The truth about sex
 

I have been into white women since I was in my teens. However as I grown man in my 40's I see that the sexual interaction between white women and black men has become a more frequent thing. With that in mind television, film and even books have made it understandable . Funny thing about our interaction there are still those that are against it and believe that such a sexual encounter is taboo. My issue is the ones where ladies in the work world flirt with black men as if they want it but then back down from the fear of others finding out. I know I speak for not only me but other fellas, we know how to keep a secret and furthermore if you want it don't be a bitch about it when we approach you on your actions just give in and enjoy the ride we can take you on.

Here in Philly I see alot of females that say that want it but be bitching up do others run into that. Also for women do you run into fellas that are full of shit when you do approach them?

Having apprehensions doesn't make a person a bitch.

My understanding is that there are a lot of things that people fantasize about. Say for example sky diving. A lot of people say they'd love to do it but when the opportunity presents itself and they're up in a plane looking down....things suddenly don't seem so exhilarating.

Like you said, it's still taboo for a lot of people. Showing patience with them will make them feel more comfortable. Trust me, I know from experience. Women who are apprehensive will become more comfortable when you show no signs of frustration and guide them through the experience. This may mean that you may have to wait until they are more comfortable, but it is what it is.