need advice on what to expect
 

my wife and I have fantasized bout sharing her with a black guy and we have watched plenty of IR movies. It has really enhanced our sex life, but for the last four months Brooke has been talking about actually going thru with it , I've tried to discourage her from it but after the last few talks we've had she's let me know she is pretty determined to have a black guy. I have learned it's one thing to fantasize about it, yet a whole other thing to make it real.

Its strange when I really let myself think of Brooke with a black guy I get very turned on and scared shitless all at the same time.

We've been married for two and half yrs. she's 28 yrs. old I'm 48, to be honest I never thought we'd be actually going thru with it. Brooke is incredibly beautiful . I really have no idea how a marriage is effected by sharing your wife with a black guy.

I'm in hopes that this group can tell me what to expect during the actual time of sex and afterwards. If you could tell me how your relationship is effected by sharing your wife. I haven't found any post of any downside by sharing your wife.

I don't know if it's more fantasy or real when women talk about being addicted to BCC, I just would like to be informed as much as possible so I know what we're in for.

First Time
 

It took some time to convince my wife to go Black and it was well worth the wait. We have only meet with one BBC and he completely satisfied her. She is not hooked I mean, shes not looking to fuck Black man daily. IR is a beautiful thing I would love seeing a BBC on my wife daily but she is the type of woman who enjoys sex but not constantly.

I will admit that I have never seen my wife with a black guy. However, we have been in the swinging lifestyle for a good 20 years now. During that time, I have seen my wife with guys who are thicker then me, longer then me, thicker and longer then me, last longer then me ... you get the point.

We enjoy the lifestyle. That doesn't mean it's for everyone. I have seen this wreck various marriages. More then once we have met a couple, had fun with them several times and the guy said fuck it and left the wife. This really bothered me, so I had to inject a ground rule that I won't be part of a couples first time experience with swapping. The wife and I are in this for fun, not to be the reason for a divorce.

Back to you, if you don't think you will like it. In the end you probably won't. You will probably be extremely turned on while it's happening and then wind up with a SERIOUS case of buyers remorse. But unlike a car, this is your wife you're talking about.

Once she goes black ---You know the rest!
 

Not that it's a bad thing! I say this because black guys are unselfish lovers, out to please the lady. Some 15 years ago my wife and I decided to experiment so to speak. We tried the couples swinging thing and found it didn't work for us at all. To many personalities going on. Next up we
agreed that she could seduce either someone we knew, an acquaintance or simply getting picked up by a total stranger. Luckily 5 white guys, most of which we either knew or a flirt with an acquaintance. Two of the five worked out well for her. Both friends of recent years that she was able to hook up with a dozen or more times or so. Honestly, I wasn't crazy about it especially when her feelings for one of the guys became more than just the hot sex. Game ending! Luckily for me her feelings were stronger. About a year later we were at a best friends Sunday afternoon BBQ, mostly couples and a few single males and females. Well one of the single males was a black guy that my wife obviously was attracted too. I swear he looks like the actor Taye Diggs. They talked all afternoon and into the early evening hours. Before leaving my wife and her new friend exchanged phone numbers. On the way home she told me that she mentioned to him about our experimenting, swinging and a few single white males she was with etc. I came right out and asked her if she wanted to do him, she said yes why not having never been with a black guy before. The rest is history, you don't need to hear this part. All I can say is look at it this way - keep it recreational sex, nothing more. nothing less. It is true what I mentioned above, when ever they hooked up all he wanted to do was please her, expecting little in return. The same goes for the other black lovers my wife was with since.
Take the plunge and go for it. You''ll also find black guys really don't mind husbands being present watching the goings on. It's safe,. recreational and adults being adults about it.

going black
 

Dont think saying is totally true. Wife goes black and never left. If u going to watch b prepared to see her get dick. Esp if yall get a bull

It can be weird, but you should probably do it. Here's the deal - If you like watching porn with a hot woman taking bbc, then this will be better than anything you've ever seen. Ask about videoing it. If she says yes then do it. You'll be as hooked as she is. For me, there's no pornstar hotter than my wife. And think about this - when they're done you're gonna be in her next - it's the hottest feeling, especially if he barebacks her and gives her a creampie. I do love a straight fuck, but doing it when she's got hot slippery cum in her is really the best. Something about it can't be explained. If none of the above turns you on, don't do it. But if you're getting a feeling in the pit of your stomach, then face your fears and turn it into a positive. It's super hot.

bareback only for all men
 

Like a lot of you out there we were into swinging . After a few years I realized how much my wife enjoyed sex with strange men. Yes I always enjoyed sex with the wives of the cpls we would swing with. But I found watching wife taking a mans cock in her mouth and pussy was a real erotic turn on. I knew how great she was in bed and she was horny 24/7 and she really liked to be giving a blow job and have a cock in her pussy the same time. So after a few years we migrated to just sharing her with other men even into group sex. We posted on the site AFF and got a lot of responses from men local and regional. After sorting through some fakes we ended up with about 40 to 50 men ranging in age from 35 to 70 and yes at least half were black men. We would set a dinner meeting basically like a interview. And OMG I don't know who some of them were shit but their photos they posted were either 20 yrs old or of someone else. I admit we're not Ken &Barbie but were honest and clean. Some of the guys who we met were pigs. But we did find quite a few that were on the up an up and quite compatible. After a few weeks of meetings and dinners and chats on internet we set up meeting's at a motel with the selected men. Well the playing field narrowed after the motel sex. We talked about each one of the guys and she would make her choice for a recall or dump. Both of us made our choice of the final list of men for her. We had come up with about 20 to 25 guys that she would enjoy to meet on a regular basis. The group was mixed about half white and black. Most were married and a few were single so after some chatting we learned when was the best time to meet for most. Wife's tubes were tied so bareback sex was what she preferred and most jumped at the chance to pump her full. After a while we started inviting a couple of the guys at the same time and different ones really got into it. Some voiced their opinion on hot it was to be involved in MMFM sex with her. A couple of the white guys really liked it when she invited a black guy too and got to watch her suck and fuck him. It didn't take long before we knew that having groups of men of mixed races was much more satisfying for her. As some in previous post you need to keep in mind sex with other men is just recational and not romance. We have been swinging and sharing for 35yrs now and still enjoy the sex with each other and the other guys that wife chooses to satisfy her needs.
So to the couples out there do your homework and pick the best choice in a fuck buddy for wife and she will enjoy the extra attention and sex and always come home well satisfied.

Sounds like you are unsure if you were trying to discourage her. If you're not 100% on board, then it might not be the positive experience you imagine. Have to step back and think of why you are hesitant. It's not only about her, it's about both of you getting the most out of it and being pleasurable for everyone.

Sex is all in the head
 

As long as, you both, have your heads in the right frame of mind, interracial sex will be incredible. You've got to be secure in your relationship and realize that you're just doing this for fun. It's strange at first to watch another man with your woman. Especially, once she gets into it and starts really enjoying the sex. But, it's also one of the most exciting things you'll ever see,

Take it slow and if it gets weird, back off and keep it as a fantasy.

Just asking because I‘ve dealt with women that are married to older men; if this scenario is true why would you enter into relationship with a woman that's 20 years your senior? Did you or do you think you'll be able to satisfy her when you‘re 53-58-63-68? Its like you‘re setting yourself up to get cheated on. I know, your woman loves you and would never leave you…yadda yadda yah, but if you‘re supporting a female financially (not stating that you are) she's not going to tell you that she's cheating on you to your face. Theres plenty of 40+ year old women that give out pussy.

hi
 

Being a bull I think the whole thing is respect I have a couple everything comes from him timevwe meet and when we meet im sure she is pulling the string but it thru him he's there to watches sometime participate some time he sits there and just watching me fuck the living life out of her and he loves it and we part ways. SometimeS we go out for dinner sometimes, we go there place I do what he dictates and of course what she dictates.The main thing is chemistry and respect and I feel if the husband is part of the selection of the guy and the wife approve of the guy it makes for a better relationship and also the type of person you pick you can pick a thug if you want you gotta get this of feedback you pick somebody that's decent respectful thoughtful compassionate and I think you have a great relationship.
As a bull I'm there for both parties but I also want to make sure she is extremely satisfied and he is greatfully satisfied that brings a call back for you to come back and have a repeat and sometime a long term relationship that turns into a long friendship and thats it its not all about just fucking


Njmocha

Finally, a well-thought out answer to the most intriguing question. Njmocha obviously has the "right chemistry" for a white couple's needs and wants. Satisfying the wife is the paramount factor in any IR relationship. But keeping a respectful relationship with the husband is often the key to ensuring the wife is always available for their mutual pleasure.

I'm in the same boat today.