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I really am fascinated by the lifestyles discussed here. I have the greatest respect for a woman who acknowledges her dark desires and rather than ignore and deny herself such pleasure she instead embraces her urges and actively seeks to satisfies them. I fully believe that a woman who denies her urges can never live a truly happy life as something will always be missing. I also further believe that when a hubby denies a woman the right to these desires it will generate resentment even if this resentment never surfaces in a relationship. I may be completely wrong but this is my opinion.

My wife of 20 years is a truly wonderful 41 year old woman. She is an amazing loving wife, a patient and caring mother and a very polite and somewhat shy girl. People who meet her would describe her as a lady. In the bedroom however she is out of control. She loves using brutal dildos which she penetrates herself with almost daily and during lovemaking she demands to be fucked as hard as I can. Slow gentle lovemaking just doesn't do it for her and never has. She is very orgasmic and even after all these years we still fuck almost twice every day. Unfortunately my 6" cock is the only one that has ever been inside her and for some time I have felt that she was cheated in life after not having the opportunity before we were married to experience larger and various men.

I desperately want her to try a black lover as she has always liked the dark skin and has several times made positive comments when seeing a picture of a black cock. Over the last 6 months I have just a couple of times started to discuss with her the possibility of taking a black lover for a night of passion but the response is always the same with her claiming that I am all she needs and that I make her happy - honestly, I should be left flattered at such comments but I am not. Without blowing my own trumpet this is true. I am a very confident lover and after 20 years I know how to turn her inside out and make her talk in tongues but I am also conscious she can't make a true comparison due to her lack of experience.

Reading the stuff here about wives totally addicted to their black lovers turns me on. The concept of a woman who has had 20, 30 or 100 black lovers leaves me totally in awe at their desire and sexual energy. However I am more interested in hearing from men and woman where the wife took a little convincing or started off totally against the idea. I want to hear of situations where the wife showed zero initial interest and how this developed or changed over time to the point where she not only took her first black lover with enthusiasm but found herself in a position wanting to repeat the BBC experience.

I do not seek to be a cuckold. I have no cuckold desires however I would cooperate in this manner if my wife started to develop such an interst regarding my role. However I really don't believe anything about the degrading cuckold lifestyle would appeal to her. Ideally I want to put herself into a position where she is safe and can freely enjoy herself. I suspect this means me not being present which would be unfortunate because obviously I would like to see the first moment a black man enters the woman I deeply love, but as this is all about her I won't be selfish and insist on watching when/if this time comes. Unless of course this is something she would want, but I somehow doubt this. I think left alone she would get more from the experience.

We have a young family with the youngest being a toddler so I am realistically on a 5 year plan before we can put ourselves in a situation where logistically I can organise a black lover for her. Due to this fact I can really take my time in developing her desire but I need a good game plan and one that doesn't make her feel pressured or uncomfortable but instead gets her fantasizing about a black lover and realizing that she has the freedom to satisfy her developing desires.

I think it is also worth stating she has never been interested in porn so apart from a few pictures and just a couple of videos I have sent her she is totally naive to this lifestyle. I also think that directing her to a site like this where very hardcore attitudes regarding the black ownership of a wife which includes such things as breeding would completely turn her off at this point in time. Perhaps if the desire starts to build she will be more ready to learn about the more hardcore deeper desires but this is not appropriate with her current state of mind and lack of education. Also worth mentioning is that there is no black lover taboo in my county so this aspect is not on the table. It simply doesn't exist here.

I know these forums are filled with fakes and bullshitters and personally this shits me to tears because it is hard finding truthful information amongst the crap. I also know there are endless threads on this subject "how do I get my wife to......". Please, this is a very genuine post. I am just a white hubby who wants to give my soul mate the opportunity to experience all life can offer and I seek real information how men and woman have developed and grown this desire from very little initial interest.

Sorry for long post but I think to get the best feedback our situation needed explaining.