Nervous about a creampie
 

My husband and I have been trying to find the right person for my first BBC and we think we may have found him. I don't like condoms and I am on birth control so it would be nice to let him cum inside me. My problem is how do I go about making sure he is DD free so I can feel comfortable about this. It would be really great to hear how others have handled this type of situation.

:o Thanks :o

Ddf
 

Just have him get tested and show you the results.

Thanks, are most bulls willing to do that?

Surely you must be kidding. You're into this lifestyle, want to try a BBC for the first time with caution, and you don't know the answer to such a simple question? And even before you got into this lifestyle common sense is all one needs to figure the answer to your question out. Do you know how to make sure you're DD free and prove it if asked? The it's the same the other way around. Do you really need members in this forum to tell you what to do? Really???

Easy killer, just finding out how others handle getting something that proves a potential partner is DDF. Never done this before so sorry if I'm not the expert...

First was apprehensive about my first bbc creampie too
I talked about it a lot during the foreplay and he made and he made me comfortable with it; telling me that he would be happy to pull out and cum on my tummy.

When we were having sex I didn't think about it until we were getting close, I was to focused on the pleasure. He told me that he was getting close and asked me where I wanted his cum. I remember just kind of squinting into his eyes and pulling him tight against me to feel him unload as deep as I could get it.

Take it easy -baby steps first. A certificate is not 100% prove someone is sexual disease free. You will always have to be careful not matter whom your go with. If a black guy does not want tpo show a certifcate that he does not have a sexual disease then no go I say!

Trust takes time, so as I said to start, take it slowly.

"How about since you have nothing nice to say then you just say nothing at all, jerk." Same thing apply to you as well. It's a forum with plenty of fakes and stupid people in it as you've just proven and endorsed. JERK.. Like them. Try using some common sense. It's does not take much. A BBC creampie is no different from a white cock creampie. You do know the difference right? In case you don't. It's the color of the cock. Would they be asking the same question in another forum that was not all about interracial sex? So again! Practice what you preach and don't be so naive.

Yeah that's what I was thinking

last 3 comments dead on !
 

ya that and aids is aids. the original cpl at the top just needs to firm up their policies and then go forward.

Thanks for the help, we are still trying to figure this out and it's nice to get good honest advice.

Tested
 

Make arrangements for him to get tested yourself, so he cant fake it.

Well there you go with the name calling. Jerk, and now prick. It takes one to know one they say. If you don't have anything nice to say then shut up I was once told and the part about practice what you preach I was referring to. Not safe sex. Who does not know that??? It does not take a brain surgeon to figure out what you just advised them to do. But then again you could be one, but just incompetent. EVERYBODY in this lifestyle and even those that are not knows the danger of swinging and inviting anyone into you bed since way back when. Did you solicit advised when you started? I would guess no because you were smart enough to figure it out on your own. Don't go swimming in lakes and river that you're not familiar with is and was always good advise. And no! You did not mentioned their partner's race, neither did I. But look a little closer and read more, and you'll see pictures of white couple, posting about BBC creampie. It's pretty clear to anybody, except you. What is "the op"? and if you don't care if they're fake or not as you are probably too then you can keep your two cents to yourself.

I read all this talk of 'testing' and certificates and while it makes sense if you believe your 'swing' partner is being monogamous... it's kinda BS because it's only as good as his last test... who the hell did he fuck last nigh tho???

Our rule was simpler... no gay men, bi men, drug users, illiterate, inarticulate or poorly educated... Horrible profiling but kinda stacks the odds in your favor to start with... After that it was a long and honest discussion about attitudes and experience... then I deferred to her female intuition, posing the simple question "if you met and dated this guy as a single woman, would you fuck him?"

If the answer to that was "no" then we made a polite exit... I never wanted her to fuck a man she didn't genuinely like - bareback or not. I loved my wife!

You have to be pragmatic about things - after all it's actually more dangerous driving to the damned date....

We never had a problem.

I would never trust someone first time. And even though I love being cum in its just not worth the risk. Once you get to know someone I gues its a judgement call. Though I'm not proud of it I have been to an STD clinic when I got worried about someone (thankfully I was ok)

First of all, gay men wouldn't be interested in this type of scenario. As for bi men, you mean you said no to those who pretended they weren't bi. You're just fooling yourself if you really think you have the cards stacked in your favor. I love BB, but I don't fool myself. Good luck, though. You'll need it.

I see mostly married guys, very few single. Regardless of which, I always ask to see test results before I let a guy cum inside me. No proof then wrap it up. Once a guy is inside you both of you may be too excited and into it to stop him from cumming. My attitude is that if he is unprotected and deep inside, then its already been decided that I want him to cum in me.

Yes, most bulls are more than willing to do that

On the flip-side of the coin. If you're a BBC with genital herpes and no other diseases, NorCal, send us a friend invite.

Wear a goddamn condom.

Baffles me how people don't realize this.