Friends?? Really??
 

We're new to this site but not to interracial sex. We've been getting a few friend requests. Wondering why? If you're not close to us...whats the point? Most just send a friend request without saying anything. What's the point? We're not here to win a most friends contest. Yes we'd love to make honest true friends, but if we don't even talk to each other than how can we be friends. Some people make their profile private and thats not us, but kinda understand why. There are so many fake people on sites like this it's crazy, and either of us can figure out why. If you want to be our friend then at least send us a message and tell us about yourself, have a few photo's at least, and most of all be real. Web friends are nice but we really want to meet in real life. You might also read our profile, at least what little we posted, and have an interest in the type of play we do. Thanks, Just trying to keep it real

That's a good point, I was doing the same thing. So now I started sending messages

If you dont like traveling, or you just want to live inside your little box, then it may not be beneficial.
I like to travel, plus I just like seeing other things or just getting away from the monotony of my environment; thats why I accept and request friendship from those out of my area.
I've been to tahoe, new mexico, texas, florida, and other places. Also, you never know what could become of a friendship from out of town. You may be looking to move to their city; they may be looking to sell their house; anything can happen. I would rather be on the side of being able to turn down an opportunity, then to miss an opportunity. My mantra is; leave no stone unyurned. Some of us put limits on ourselves while others are limitless.

Well, for me the situation is very simple: I'm the white guy who likes watching interracial sex. Because I'm a white guy on this Interracial site (black guys, white girls mostly) - I don't get lot of the attention and it's hard to get into conversation (except in the chat room). So, by adding as much people as possible, maybe some girl will go on my profile and like what she sees... And send me a PM or comment or something... And conversation can start. :)

Your point is understandable and it's not that we disagree but blank profile's no messages or comments mean what? To us if you want to be a friend then talk, introduce yourself say something other than just sending a friend request. Friends talk to each other.

Well Jim he's traveled his whole life and been to every state in the U.S. many times over. Our box as you call it will be in the Tampa area. We don't see much traveling in our future. We are not looking for cyber sex or bullshit talk. Like we said to Mustang friends talk to each other. They are not a collection of profile pics where we think...oh he's got a big one or she's cute or they sound hot. They are real people who we have an interest in and have an interest in us. Who speak to us, not just some blank request. We are real people with thoughts, likes and desires. You may not like ours or we may not like yours but thats ok. All we've asked is introduce yourselves, tell us who you are an what your interests are. There are so many completely blank profiles here, no pic, no info, for all we know you're the Smith's dog dreaming of being a black stud in your next life. Also just because you have a pic or your profile states "I'm a big black stud wantin to fuck all you white women" means nothing on this site or most any site like it. Odds are you're a silly white boy playing games. You know this as well as most. This is an interracial sex site and not a cuckold/hotwife site. We happen to be a couple interested in interracial as well as cuckold/hotwife play. Again if you want to be OUR friend then talk to us.

I should've stated it, but I wasn't addressing you directly, just people in general, and for people that do like to stay within their box, thats cool too. I was just responding to the post. Some people (not necessarily you) dont like to do the work of "trying" to get to know someone, they just want everything to fall in their lap, or they take the "minute rice" approach in regards to their sexual life. It's like people dont want to put forth the effort of knowing someone, and finding out if they have some sort of off-ramp agenda. I can't count on my fingers and toes the women I had sex with before they actually got to know me; when they actually got to know me, they wanted to know more, and hang out more, then they wanted to be in a relationship. Then I would say no, I don't want to be in a relationship with you because you took the lazy, and backwards way of getting to know me, then I get called all kinds of names, lol.
The other thing is that this site isnt necessarily like facebook, where you can actually say hello to everyone every day, I was surprised that it didnt have a list for favorite people that you would correspond with often, because it would take a lot of time to just correspond with everyone on your list.
Your point is taken.

I know how you feel. I had some white dude send me a friends request with 3 pics of his dick out. I wish all you black dudes stop that bullshit too. Every dude here got a pic of their dick in their avatar. Its like you dudes just realized you have a dick.

Agreed..facebook it's not more like dickbook...lol not that we mind looking at them, but a simple Hi, how are you I'd like to get to know you, would work real well.

Thats funny and as our last post says we might call this Dickbook...lol...mind you we don't mind looking at your dicks but not everybody wants to see them.

Avatar Dicks
 

A dick in your avatar is supposed to be against the rules, but I guess not really since it's obviously never enforced. I like my avatar . . . BLACK POWER!!! WHITE BEAUTY!!! LOL :D

Love the BBC avatars *wink*
 

Thick, I have always loved your avatar, its so festive!! But as far as the dick avatar's are concerned, I would rather look at a dick any day instead of looking at a spread open pussy!!! Oh gawd and the ones with the sludge running out of them. Ugh and the hairy pussy people are the worst about using that pic for their avatar. :eek: it's like looking at a big hairy scary muppet that has a cold with snot running out.. :eek: .. I don't wanna see that on my screen... Lol In your profile fine but avatar? Naaaa

Come to think of it, the only place I saw that rule? Suggestion? About not using a dick and being more creative was in the chat rules right before entering the chat room. Is that also posted here to in the forums? If not then some members might not know since not everyone visits the chat room..

As I said earlier I would rather look at a BBC any day instead of a wide open muppet or that little KKK bed sheet wearing ghost.. Yea he bothers me too. Lol

I don't have a dick on my Avatar... :)

There are lots of us on this site who are real not fake. I am a real person pretending to be a woman because my mistress says I am not a real man. I was creaming my panties every day over your dick picture until you took it down. Thanks for being real! Fortunately there are plenty more black men out there who appreciate me because they know that because I am not a real man they get to fuck my wifes pussy and own it. Having me worship their big black penis is a small price to pay for the opportunity to empty thier balls in a hot willing mouth or pussy.