break-thru conversation
 

So the wife and I had some break-thru conversation and I think I know her main hang-ups with the idea of BBC.

1. Bless her heart, she's afraid this is all about ME wanting to sleep with other women. She doesn't understand or believe that I want this 'mostly' for her pleasure. No doubt that this is MY fantasy 'watching the wife with a nice BBC.' But it would not be a fantasy-come-true unless my wife thoroughly enjoys herself as well.

2. Married people don't do that sort of thing.

Watched a few Janet Mason scenes with her tonight. While the conversation was a little tense I bluntly but nicely asked her about any black fantasies. She said that YES, she'd had those fantasies when she was younger, but not as a married women.

I browsed with her earlier, photos of some cakes she'd made. She's fond of baking cakes and cookies and such. While watching the BBC porn I pointed at the screen and told the wife... "You'd probably have to bake him a plate of cookies or something." She couldn't help but laugh a little and smile.

As she was drifting off to sleep tonight and we were saying our good nights. I told her to "Have sweet dreams honey... about all the stuff we talked about." and she smiled.

Comments?

she needs bbc, you need to make it happen.

Why are so many "Cuckold threads" in the General Forum??
And why with so many Cuckies and Wannabe-Cuckies is the Cuckold section not more active?

Agreed
 

If you are just discussing your fantasies that's fine but I wouldn't push her the choice should bring you together as a couple... a fantasy you both want to share

on another note if she is just insecure... reassure her let her know how much her getting off gets you off, she might not know this.

Sounds like she thought of the idea and has moved on since.

wife share ain't cuck is it?

My wife is no whore and I wouldn't want her to be a whore. This is not a cuck thing, it's a share thing. And it's something that developed recently in our years together. It's an idea or fantasy that's come up that I tell her about. She's sort-of down with the idea but if I really try to make it happen, it'd be entirely up to her.

I do not like my wife and the word "whore" used in the same sentence of course. I'm considering sharing MY Wife. A beautiful and kind creature who will dis-enjoy what you have "shared".

I'm not pushy, and telling her about my thoughts ALWAYS brings us closer together. The sex is great and I do love her to have fun in bed. And we do! No complaints. She's a bit apprehensive but discussion is on-going. The way she likes it... We talk about things!

I think it's pretty much on me at this point. To try to make it happen or not? And how to make it happen? Too early right now.

You gotta get your definitions straight. I told the wife she wouldn't be a slut. And she wouldn't be. I told her she'd just be playing a slut FOR ME, on weekends. If we find a down-to-earth not-uptight regular sort of guy. Neither would make her a "whore" or "whorish". :mad: That word again?

What wife wouldn't say that at first? An idea can grow on a person. I'm the sort who might present it to her all nice and neat with a bow on top. Explain again that it'd be ok by me and let her make her final decision from there. She will appreciate my efforts if nothing else.

If she doesn't want it, why force the issue?
If she's happy with what she has, why can't you be happy about that?
If she wants to be a faithful wife, why is that considered a bad thing?
If it truly is "about her" then just let her make her own decisions, she doesn't want it? End of story!

1.If she doesn't want it, why force the issue?
I would never force anything on her. I'm open with her and myself about all of this. Is that a bad thing?

2.If she's happy with what she has, why can't you be happy about that?
I am and always will be happy with her. She is amazing.

3.If she wants to be a faithful wife, why is that considered a bad thing?
It's not a breach of faithfulness with my consent. If she ultimately sides against, it's a good thing. If she goes for it, it's a good thing. There are no bad things between my wife and I.

4.If it truly is "about her" then just let her make her own decisions, she doesn't want it? End of story!
My feelings exactly. Of course. I haven't presented her with a realistic chance yet. If I REALLY offer it to her, I hope she goes with my decision on the matter naturally.

Again, "whore" is not the story here. You just threw that out there as bit of sunshine for the world. It's your projection onto shit called none-of-your-business.

I know I asked for comments, but with all the whore talk about my wife... You can keep your shit commentary for someone on this site who digs that sort of thing. Lastly. I hope. She is a damn good woman! A lucky man am I! She never did like assholes though and won't like you.

The wife would attest that I'm in no way a "controlling" person. The very idea of sharing is proof enough of it I think. And there IS a block-user function on this site if I choose to use it. So don't lie to me mr. morals. I always let an asshole be an asshole. I prefer they advertise it so I don't have to point it out. Being an asshole towards a couple of people in a forum just outs you as that... An asshole. Congratulations, you're an asshole. Look, you know how people feel about you so move on. You're just digging a deeper hole exposing yourself as a pushy asshole. You're a forum troll. As if they're something new. I suspect what happens now is you will redouble your efforts. With more vitriol and maybe even gibberish in attempt to be-blocked.

Your original comment on wife sharing was wrong headed. Just admit it. At worst it's slutty. So to continue on a wrongheaded slope turns ignorance into the propagation of lies. What you suggest is that there would be some sort of financial transaction. I seek only wholesome sex for the wife. A special occasion. And your big asshole head was projecting again, to suggest I was looking to see anything special coming from you.

All your friends can come and agree with you. Doesn't make it right, your characterization of what me an my wife have together.