There are times that we do.

AGAIN...WE NEED STICKIES! this topic has been touched on already! Plus, yous keep confusing racial epithets with sexual statements.
"Nigger dick" would be an epithet, "white slut/whore" would not.

I'm not confusing anything. I'm talking about it all. Epithets and "sexual statements". All of it is what I'm talking about.

Nword
 

When im with my lover i use the nword in bed (or wherever he has me at the moment) because thats something i know he likes hearing me say. He says its sexy and i agree i feel sexy saying it. But notice im not saying it now :p
Its all about setting and who youre with

Talkers are rare
 

Maybe Im unlucky but... its hard to find a woman that will talk to you in bed let alone say some dirty, derogatory, rascist ass shit to you. They usually say the same shit over and over again or give short answers to everything (yes, yes, YES lol).

Sexual imagination, whether it be using foul language and or coming up with new and kinky ways of fucking, is hard to find even in this era of free internet porn and sexual advice in every mens and womens magazine available.

One day I hope to find that special young lady that will get on her knees, wrap a hand around my dick, look me dead in the eye, and tell me how much she loves my big, black, nigger dick..........

If she says it on her own then she's one bold bitch. You gotta tell her to say it. Next time a white girl is giving u head or you are banging it out, ask her "do she like that nigger dick". If u want to start off slow then say "black dick or blk cock" first. When she's into she will say just about anything.

I know it's all sexy playtime fun stuff but... I've always walked away from hearing that shit in the real world. I don't think I'd invite it into the bedroom.

See, that's the whole point.

It doesn't belong in the everyday, normal, regular, real world.

BUT, in certain situations, it can instead be exciting and appropriate to for that time and place.
It is part of bedroom playtime. Well, OK it doesn't have to be confined to the bedroom, I mean you can also have great sexual fun in the living room, the kitchen, on top of the washing machine, anywhere in the house that you like. It's the situation and the play that makes something more or less appropriate.

So while you shouldn't invite it into everyday "real world" life, in the bedroom - if it gets both partners (or at least one, sometimes you do stuff because you know it's what the other likes, as long as it's not a total no-go for you) off then hey do it.

Sex is something primal, animalistic, it is the one real thing that still ties us humans truly to the Animal Kingdom (no, not the one in Orlando, FL). Will a lion be political correct when he hunts the gazelle? Will a white dove be political correct when in flight it takes a dump that finishes on someone's head? NO!

Political correctness has no place while having sex. Respect and care for your partner do.

Saying certain things while in-character during role-play, does not mean you don't respect your partner during play. It just means your acting out on the play. Once playtime is over, it's back to normal.

I disagree. I'm quite far beyond not into any of that stereotypical stuff.

During those intimate moments of extreme pleasure, I can only say warm and tender words to my black boyfriend and there are no reasons to use the N word or any other racist comments.