I have a Toshiba laptop that o purchase in 2009 which has no camera. Did not buy it then to flash either my face of cock all over the internet. But I assure everyone here I am who I say I am. And even if I did have a laptop with a built-in camera, or one that I added after, having privacy is sometime harder to have than some others do. Hence the reason why so many of tou all get online way last midnight. But not having a camera to show in the chat room, and spending very little time there in no way is any indication that I am a fake. Because I hate them just as much, and a actually know a couple who claimed they were real with email, and all kind of messages, that turned out to be fake as their profile look real.

Or
 

Or that they're really black sexin' . . . or just talkin' about it ! I've found telephone contact with somebody in your immediate area to be a far, far, FAR more reliable indicator of who's really real, ready, and willing to throw down. And the best sign? When it's the lady of the house who calls and does the initial talking :)

Hun, if anyone ANYONE doubts that your a real then you send their asses to me!! �� I will let them know real fast!! Now go buy a cam so u can see your face, it's been awhile!!!

Damn!!!!
 

You hire a PI? lol. TND don't play. Never figured you did. 💋

dont front lol

We've tried...
 

We've been reading this thread and it seems that this fake thing may go both ways. We have tried to set her up with a small group by posting a blog literally saying we're looking for a small group (and received no replies at all) in the SoCal area. We really do better finding guys on SLS or Kasidie than here. We guess the problem is that this site is all over the country/world, and the guys aren't close enough by us. We chatted with one guy from San Diego, but when we asked him to drive up to us, we never heard from him again. She delivers, but not in that way. We expect the guy to at least make the effort to come to her. It's fun for us to look at the pix and read the stories, but that's really about it. More mind candy than anything else.

D&M

Very frustrating
 

This subject is re-energized almost every two weeks.... Would be nice if the site were changed somehow to address this issue.

I have the same frustrations as the rest of you. Fakes, fantasizers, fuglies, and undercover f@gs...Oh my...

What makes my case so bad is that I CAN travel to hook up. Distance is not an obstacle and yet a brotha cant even get a reply to an email most of the time.... wtf? If you're not interested, cant meet, or just here to fantasize, then dont "friend" those of us that are trying to get it in. At the very least, let it be known in your profile what you are about.

Hey doggie real in Chicago ;)

This is actually a little depressing.
We have been swingers for years, and are just branching into new territory, trying to get out of our always with couples. Not to mention giving me a chance to get back to something I enjoyed before meeting my husband.
One of the women from a local swingers club here told me about the site and I was excited. We made our profile, posted some pics... but only now checked the forum and this thread caught our eye.
We hoped for more real people here, we've had luck with couples on SLS but honestly it seems like 3 out of every 4 disappear when it comes down to actually meeting.
Is there anyone that can point me in a direction for real contacts?