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Mike20122012 03-11-2013 08:23 AM

Taking suggestions on how to get lucky with more white women
 
Although I've had a few sexual encounters with white women over the years, I feel my success rate is low compared to the great number I have worked with, met one on one in their homes, become friends and socialize with. Due to my jobs over the years, I have spent a good deal of time with white females in many isolated or one on one situations and have practically a hundred or more connections through Facebook, frequently meet white women while shopping, etc. but still the sexual encounters aren't too numerous. I'm open to suggestions. What should I do to change my success ratio? I'm not really a bar or club person(I use to be) but I'm surrounded by white babes practically everyday so I have no excuses for not getting more action. Btw, I'm also into black, Hispanic, Asian and all sexy women but mainly spend time around white women.

Ronnie 22 03-11-2013 02:37 PM

Loing weight might help.

darkblackbull 03-11-2013 06:49 PM

Just be yourself and dont be afraid to say hello The white women that are into black men will let you know

Mike20122012 03-11-2013 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Ronnie 22 (Post 50019)
Loing weight might help.

Hey Ronnie, what a stupid ass response. What exactly is your IQ? You're such a dumb ass that you can't even spell.

syft09 03-12-2013 02:30 AM

well on another note! treat it like thin ice, but dont act like a human... act like a polarbear.... meaning if it cracks b4 you get to your goal so what you can swim, try light steps with vocal flirting get into open ended statments that can me taken sexualy but not talking about sex directly... cat and mouse... teasing... making a woman feel at ease is great... ask questions that are small but lean her mind into "what is he getting at" once you are good with that get them right into "oh is that what hes getting at" if they dont want you you will roll off like water on a ducks back if they dont dodge you... theres something there... the best thing is have balls and be fun, but fun to talk to not like a joke... i dont know what feild you are in but if you can talk to them about what u do u can do it and hit on them at the same time... you can def check out david deangelo on youtube... but dont take him word for word just get what hes trying to get you to do... "be present"

richard1905 03-12-2013 03:27 AM

you could always move to baltimore!

Mustang Alley 03-12-2013 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by syft09 (Post 50037)
well on another note! treat it like thin ice, but dont act like a human... act like a polarbear.... meaning if it cracks b4 you get to your goal so what you can swim, try light steps with vocal flirting get into open ended statments that can me taken sexualy but not talking about sex directly... cat and mouse... teasing... making a woman feel at ease is great... ask questions that are small but lean her mind into "what is he getting at" once you are good with that get them right into "oh is that what hes getting at" if they dont want you you will roll off like water on a ducks back if they dont dodge you... theres something there... the best thing is have balls and be fun, but fun to talk to not like a joke... i dont know what feild you are in but if you can talk to them about what u do u can do it and hit on them at the same time... you can def check out david deangelo on youtube... but dont take him word for word just get what hes trying to get you to do... "be present"






Loved your advice and this is so true and works with me all the time. Ya gotta cat and mouse me, get to my mind and my body follows (old saying but so true) when guys come at me hard acting like they have superman dick powers, I just turn away.

Syft~ you never fail to surprise me. ��



Mike20122012 03-12-2013 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by syft09 (Post 50037)
well on another note! treat it like thin ice, but dont act like a human... act like a polarbear.... meaning if it cracks b4 you get to your goal so what you can swim, try light steps with vocal flirting get into open ended statments that can me taken sexualy but not talking about sex directly... cat and mouse... teasing... making a woman feel at ease is great... ask questions that are small but lean her mind into "what is he getting at" once you are good with that get them right into "oh is that what hes getting at" if they dont want you you will roll off like water on a ducks back if they dont dodge you... theres something there... the best thing is have balls and be fun, but fun to talk to not like a joke... i dont know what feild you are in but if you can talk to them about what u do u can do it and hit on them at the same time... you can def check out david deangelo on youtube... but dont take him word for word just get what hes trying to get you to do... "be present"

Syft09, thanks for your detailed response of substance. You have a lot of good pointers packed in there, some of which I had gotten away from but some pointers that will definitely be incorporated into my approach. Although my job has me working with many attractive white females, it's really not the type of interesting or high earning employment that tend to draw the attention of the ladies. Thanks man. I also like the image you painted using the carefulness and intent of the polar bear, the light flirting, extending oneself but not to the point of no return or sinking, excellent response.

Mike20122012 03-12-2013 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by richard1905 (Post 50040)
you could always move to baltimore!

Julie aka Richard1905, very sexy profile pictures. Too bad we are 3000 miles apart:-(

Mike20122012 03-12-2013 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by darkblackbull (Post 50026)
Just be yourself and dont be afraid to say hello The white women that are into black men will let you know

Thank you darkbull. I have met interested women and immediately lose their connection when I mention that I am married. I want to deal with women who accept that instead of building a pyramid of lies that are complicated to remember. I don't mind telling a few lies, just don't want to tell a mountain of lies!

syft09 03-12-2013 04:26 PM

be honest and present! alot of white women dont care about your realtionship, alot of women regardless of race care! just let them know or never bring it up and state what you dont want! when you are thinking... rethink over your thought as ask "did i just set a limitation?" and if you did thats fear... if you want something go get it without taking anything from yourself have ambition but no ego... and i highly advise you check out david deangelo i use to listen to him when i was like 20-22 wile working on my cd player... but b4 that i read his newsletters everyday i have a ton of them saved on my old email he would awnser questions and break down people story to show them where they woulf step on their own toes and cut themselves off i need to listen to him more they say music is bubble gum for the mind wile lectures are food... so you have free time use some to better your skills and the rest to fuck the shit out of some women who think of you as a treat! you are the one givign them something wonderful, not saying pussy is lame but how you see yourself in the equasion is also key

syft09 03-12-2013 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Mustang Alley (Post 50044)



Loved your advice and this is so true and works with me all the time. Ya gotta cat and mouse me, get to my mind and my body follows (old saying but so true) when guys come at me hard acting like they have superman dick powers, I just turn away.

Syft~ you never fail to surprise me. ��



ahh yes stang im a horndog! you never get to have a real conversation with me cus im being silly! but i do have insight and intellect and know how to seduce women... its funny that i said thin ice... because when speaking to women you are breaking the ice... but really you arnt! you are warming her from the cold world of strangers... you can find something to speak to any woman about... just look at her... see what shes doing you can sit there and fish or u can fuckign hunt... its so funny like when im dressed to the 9's my minds like "im sexy and if i see anything im on it..." but if i just get out of bed shower and go im like "oh shes cute too bad im all scruffy" this is a new paradime for me and its unhealthy because women will see past your looks if the charm is up and you are just a beast! there are some women i see oftin in stores and what not and i know they are a little wet when im around and when they see me, but ive never spoken about sex but i talk to them about everything like i hve their legs over my shoulders... same tone same speed and its not what im saying but how im saying it that translates to the body so im haveing a doubble talk and im sure if i was like we need to hang out... they would say yes... but i dont because im not into dating and i dont talk too much on the phone! but all that will change! some women hit on me and those are the ones i go for the most... i guess i never try but i practice so much im doing it without notice... also here eyes... some women wont say no to anyhting you say but will say no to the envoirnment you are both in at the time... so calculating the conversation beyond word for word is something you have to learn... women are complex and wild and those who arnt are just over sesitive...


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