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Im in a LTR with a woman I plan on spending the rest of my life with. We have great sexual chemistry and I'm a very capable lover. I have had this fantasy of seeing her with a hung black male for some time now and would love to make it happen. I haven't found a way to voice this to her yet and I'm not really in a rush to do so. Im here to make some friends and see what happens. Hopefully something happens. If anyone has any advice on how I could go about bringing this up to her feel free to give me some suggestions.

Sweetie only you know her well enough to know how and when to approach her with your fantasy. You could try watching interracial porn with her and see how she reacts to it. Just not enough info on her to give you any advice.....

Yes, if you ever watch porn together then show her some hot interracial, ask her how she likes it and proceed from there. A pretty safe and sure way to find out her sentiments on the matter.

That wasn't an option simply because she doesn't like porn. We were having a discussion about sex and we were talking about how she would be into a FFM and I asked if she would be into us having another dude in the mix with me watching and while she said she thought it would be weird to be with another guy she didn't flat out say no, she seemed unsure. It at least put the thought in her head and who knows what could happen in the future.

What about
 

What about doing the FFM thing with a BF? (Let the BF "convince her" to go black. If they spend any time together the subject should come up. It's worth a try, more pussy for you too.)

Try some IR pictures. Text them to her at different times during the day. Umm not during church or the PTA. Lol. (As that might backfire on you if someone else happens to be standing near. ) Email them is a way to go too. Sleepy time is always perfect. A sexy IR picture right before sleep can conjuror up some hot sexy dreams. It's all about planting those seeds and nurturing them as they grow.

Discipline
 

If you and She had more discipline, such probllems would solve themselves. Try switch for a couple og weeks

ITS THE EXACT PROBLEM THAT I AM HAVING!!! BE VERY CAREFUL! My girl doesn't watch porn and doesn't want to! I told her about my it fantasy and it only made her feel sad, but curious as she asked me to show her someday. Days passed and this topic had never been brought up again(( few days ago she found it porn on my PC, was shocked, didn't show any interest to it, and cryied all night. She doesn't understand why I watch it if I love her. And I DO love her! But as you all well know once you go black you never go back, so I can't stop thinking about my it fantasy! Every time we had sex I imagined ir sex... Now the past few days we barely talk although we live together and she is always sad and sometime cries(( I love her so much, what can I do? I definitely need some advice on how to save our relationship and get her to watch interracial!!!

Sounds like you need to pick one or the other.

The problem there is that she's not very sexual in nature. She doesn't think much about sex so me sending her pics would be kind of strange. This is a pretty big barrier to all of this actually happening but were in no rush and I'm certainly not obsessive over it happening. Just something I think could be fun for us both.