No condom necessary
 

I see a lot of porn and pics here where the guys have condoms on. I have been in this lifestyle for 8 years and I'm picky who I decide to play with. Therefore I only play bareback my regular and I have never used condoms and I personally hate how they feel. I am clean and always have been and the best part for me is when she allows me to cum inside her pussy. I'm more into the intimate connection of exchanging fluids with my partner because even when hubby is present this is still between just us two. Thoughts?

It's not just the sexual history of your partners that needs to be taken into account though. All it takes is one person exposed to something nasty, they lie about it to a subsequent partner when playing bareback, and then everyone thereafter is put at risk.

I, personally, am not willing to take that chance.

who doesn't love it bare and there is nothing better then feeling your lover cum deep in you. But I don't want to risk my life for that feeling I will only go bare with a long term lover and we both get tested but now you must remember there is another risk and that one is getting pregnant, I got pregnant from a black lover it worked out for me but I would never allow myself to get pregnant just for the sake of it

I only go bare with married men, unless the guy has a current HIV test. Most of the time my partners wear a condom, regardless of marital status.

Condoms are for pussies, full metal mayhem bitches and calf shoes

Honor System
 

If I go bareback the honor system must be in place. Current testing and being honest is for real people in the lifestyle. Other than that the risk is not worth a STD or HIV no matter how much lust and desire is involved

Some of the females I have sex with are married; others have boyfriends and such, and still others date and fuck around. So if they can't be trusted in matrimony, and or monogamous relationship, why would I trust them with my livelihood? I've had some partners for years, and I still dont have "bareback" sex with them; to me it's just reckless. I would have to be in a strictly monagamous relationship for "bareback".
It's funny because I put a post up about the disease aspect of sexual relationships, but "mysteriously" it was taken down; I guess it was too much for someones heart.

My goal is to use condoms 100% of the time because the risks of HIV or a permanent std are out there. I can understand you being picky with your women but what if she's married and her man is fucking someone else without telling her?

Condoms
 

Protect us...we can't be sure what someone else is REALLY doing!

Well, I prefer it without condom too, BUT there is always a risk, so better not.