I joined as a way to stay anonymous while sharing our relationship with other like minded people. my wife and I live in a fairly close community and have managed for more than 5 years to remain discreet.
we started by swinging/swapping with a black couple who were long time friends ,after they divorced I began sharing my wife regularly with her "bedmate" .
we've been fortunate to communicate with others openly on this site without risk of exposer while relating our lifestyle to others ,.. thank you all :)