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trollboy 12-16-2009 01:40 AM

How did you convince your wife?
 
Just a shout out to all the white/latino/asian couples out there:

Stick with just each other. Don't let other men into your lives. It'll be burned into your memories forever. Not all non black guys are out of shape small dick wussies like this biased verbally racist site indicates. If you have a boyfriend or husband don't be dragged into this IR fantasy bullshit. It is all brainwashing... I saved my girlfriend and other couples before it was too late. It has nothing to do with race regardless what color you are: It is wrong and sinful. There's no need to be a whore and to basically fuck every black/white bull in sight. You'll feel guilty with yourself afterward and won't be able to accept that this fantasy came to fruition. Please, I don't want to sound like a burden to you and you are a sensible adult who makes his/her own choices but please, please... Just read my comment and give it a thought.

This is my last post on this poisonous and immoral site. I've sent my message. I got my girlfriend and 12 other girls in my city to stop from fulfilling this 'fantasy' so hopefully some men and women might listen and drop this hobby/fantasy.

Farewell.

thinkingaboutit 12-16-2009 09:51 PM

i am also into tring to get my wife of 23 yrs to try it once with a black bull but every time i get the same answer no way. is there anything use hubby/b/f can do or say to get them to try it?

Joan46 12-17-2009 01:25 PM

Speaking for a woman's point of view
 
Have you shared her with anyone, and would she do it if he were white?
We were in the lifestle. MFM most of the time. White men only. When we met our Blk friend. I saw him naked, and I said there was noway. I agreed, after a few drinks only if he would stop if it hurt to much. I'll admit I loaded up on KY. He took his time. Not only was it not as painfull as I thought. I liked it. We became very close friends.
Hope this helps

cum4myhun 12-17-2009 04:28 PM

Convincing the wife!!
 
Mmmm there was NO PROBLEM convincing my wife!!:D She has had SEVERAL interracial relationships in the past. We have a VERY open relationship and she's shared her experiences with me. We already have an extremly GREAT sexual relationship and the more we've shared the hotter sex has gotten for us. She LOVES BLACK COCK and including another male in our bed is exciting. I love watching her seduce and be seduced by Black men. We participate together as a Threesome. I'm not Cucked, there is no humiliation or comparing and no jealousy. I Love her fucking Black men. Something about her white pussy filled with Black Cock that is intoxicating.
I think if you have to CONVINCE your wife is already a red flag. However if you Do get past this and actually include a Black male with you, she will enjoy the experience... and you too hopefully. Don't force the idea on her though. Let her warm up to the idea and let this be HER decision ultimately!!

Good luck!!

S and W

interracialsex316 12-18-2009 11:55 PM

i too have been working on my wife to fuck a black man. she has agreed but for her its not a black or white thing. she just agreed to fuck another guy. one day while watching porn, she said that she wanted to try another firl with me. so i kinda hinted to her about fucking another guy too. she wasnt really feelin it so i gave it a rest. next time we bought porn, i made sure to get a movie that had all black guys in groups fucking white women. she didnt bite on the black part of it but said that she would try an extra guy or 2 if it turned me on. she still isnt picking 1 color or the other but she said she would fuck whoever i picked for her. i'm the one that wants to see her fuck a black guy. first, i like the color contrast. second, if someones gonna fuck my girl, i wanna see a large cock penetrating her pussy. it hasnt happened yet but i have talked to a few guys off this site & were workin on it. once christmas passes, i think it will happen much quicker.

dblowe_47 12-19-2009 07:38 PM

big dildo?
 
I'm convinced the wife would be hooked once she got the BBC in deep and had the intense orgasm that causes - it's just getting them to let them in - getting passed the whole marriage vow or even chosen boyfriend thing and letting go and experiencing true pleasure. It's about sex not relationships, but somehow since women let a man inside them, it's not that easy. They are forever connected to whomever they let inside. If they could stop seeing it as gross and see it for the beauty that it is, then they would do it. It's a question of whether they see themselves as sluts or not, and unfortunately, until they feel the stretching and long fuck and deep orgasm, they are not going to be convinced and not be willing to do it. So the question is how? I wonder if a big dildo is the answer - make them cum with it and then they will want the real thing because there is no substitute for a real man on top of them. Trouble is, my wife won't even look at a big dildo. My wife is the most difficult case of all - not much interest and I cannot get her over into the slut zone. The first time we had sex, she asked if that was all there was to it. Since then no matter what I try, I cannot get her to go over the edge. So I'm not giving up on the big dildo thing - I just have to figure out how to get her on it. Has anyone else done it that way?

wonglow 12-19-2009 09:30 PM

Introduced my wife to a black friend. Invited him over for drinks. I left them alone on the couch for awhile. I came back and they were kissing. She asked if I minded, and I said no. She said she wanted to take him up stairs and finish this. I said go ahead. They were drunk and horny. Of course this is what I had planned all along.

JOHNFLOW 12-21-2009 05:00 AM

I started my wife with black dildos. I would ask her how she liked sucking and fucking the black dildos. After a couple of weeks i started asking if she wanted a real black dick. She always said yes. So i kept ot up for a few month's with the dildos and then started asking if she would really suck a black dick. And she said yes...and the reat is history. Found a black guy on ADFF with a 13in cock. We meet him a couple of weeks later and i video her sucking his cock for about an hour and half. She finally started jerking him off toward the end and he shot his load on her face. Hope this helps. Good luck

T24U 12-22-2009 07:13 PM

Beautiful Red Head Wife
 
My wife was a 26-year old virgin when we met. She is beautiful. She has full 38DD breast and a very small athletic tush for her breast size. She has very pretty green eyes and lucious full lips. Needless to say, I would love to see her with another guy. When she cums it is very intense. I often tell her it is more fun to make her cum than it is for me to cum.

I am confident that at some point in the future she willl take me up on the offer to have two rock hard cocks to please her over and over. When we have sex she loves it when I talk to her. If I ask her if she is a naughty girls sometimes she says "yes" sometimes she says "no, I am a nice girl." One time we were playing the big cock fantasy as we made love. I asked her if she wanted one in her pussy and one her mouth. She instantly turned into an animal. When I asked her which one she wanted in her mouth and which one she wanted in her kitty she said she wanted the big thick one in her pussy and me in her mouth (I am 7.5 - average).

One time while we were making passionate love she told me out of the blue that she would like to have to hard dicks in her pussy at the same time. At the time I did not know if that was possible. Thanks to the internet now I know that it is. If I ask her what her ultimate fantasy is she says, a big hard cock in her pussy while her clit is being licked...

As far as a big black cock is concerned, she says she does not want one. To be honest it does not have to be black. But I think it definitely has an appeal. I know she dated a black guy briefly in the past. But I do not know how far it went. Maybe it was just a couple dates. Maybe it was a lot of naked exploration and fun.

I have talked to her about the black dildo. She rolled her eyes. But then after I told her I bought one. It was a joke. I did by a vibe but I told her I had purchased both a vibe and a big black dlido. She rolled her eyes again. The next time we made love we were in the heat of passion. When I told her I was going to grab the new toy she shivered with excitement and asked in a naughty-sultry voice, "Whick one?".

A couple of months after that I was licking her kitty. It get very aroused when it gets licked. As I was licking I would stop and tell her a story about a big black cock. Of course the story incduded her. It was the hardest she has ever cum by far... And she cums extremely hard already. Wow...

So here is the plan:
(1.) I need to get a black dildo. I think I am going to try a black rabbit if I can find one that still looks like a black cock. She will not hesitate when it comes to the rabbit.
(2.) Then we will work our way to the black dildo that suctions at the bottom.
(3.) Here is where I need some direction. She does not really like visual porn. But she loves it when I talk dirty to her. Does anyone know where I can get books on wives who love black cock in story form? I think she will go fo that. Especially if I am out of town and I leave it in her nightstand (and mention I left her a present).
(4.) Eventually I think she will go for another mans cock. However, it might have to be a white one before a black one.

Any suggestions would be appreciated. T2

trollboy 12-25-2009 06:27 AM

Just a shout out to all the white/latino/asian couples out there:

Stick with just each other. Don't let other men into your lives. It'll be burned into your memories forever. Not all non black guys are out of shape small dick wussies like this biased verbally racist site indicates. If you have a boyfriend or husband don't be dragged into this IR fantasy bullshit. It is all brainwashing... I saved my girlfriend and other couples before it was too late. It has nothing to do with race regardless what color you are: It is wrong and sinful. There's no need to be a whore and to basically fuck every black/white bull in sight. You'll feel guilty with yourself afterward and won't be able to accept that this fantasy came to fruition. Please, I don't want to sound like a burden to you and you are a sensible adult who makes his/her own choices but please, please... Just read my comment and give it a thought.

This is my last post on this poisonous and immoral site. I've sent my message. I got my girlfriend and 12 other girls in my city to stop from fulfilling this 'fantasy' so hopefully some men and women might listen and drop this hobby/fantasy.

Farewell.

paganswingers 12-25-2009 07:08 PM

How I convinced her
 
My exwife is a pale Irish redhead who has a family that is very racist. I told her that fucking black men would be the best way to show she does not hold her families views. The first time she got a 10" black dick inside of her, she was hooked.

wabill 12-26-2009 10:20 AM

My wife
 
Hi
My wife is not interested in sex with other men, white or black. She has a fairly average sex drive and we are very happy together but Im very highly driven and for that reason alone she agreed to a MMF set up. The first time was quite a few years ago but it was all bit of fizzle. The web wasnt around then and it was all ads in the local paper etc.
We met 4 guys and 3 were not worth the effort.
She is of slim build, a pretty blonde with a great figure ( Think Kylie Minogue)
However the guys couldnt get it up or cum and to be honest we stopped after 4 guys as we seemed to be meeting all rejects looking for something that were wernt interersted in offering such as fixing their marriage.

Fast foward to last year and we discussed trying again. However I wanted black guys (only) and after some dilberation she agreed. She does not find black guys sexy or arousing but it was something she agreed to for me.
We have now met and slept with 10+ black guys, a few have worked out well enough that we have met them more than once.
Most are one nighters only with at least 50% being wastes of time

I normally do the setting up and we meet them at a hotel.
Her postion is that she will sleep with whowever comes thru the door and she is not interested in the preliminary stuff.
When we do start things moving along she becomes highy aroused and she has had some great sessions. A few guys have been crappy, usually BO or other poor presentation matters.

We met one guy, very well hung, great body and a great lover, we screwed her silly for hours and she was all jelly legged at the end. She was sore for days after and whilst I know she had a great time ( after 20 years I can tell !) she refuses to admit it.
I know she would stop meeting the black guys tomorrow if I lost interest. For her going black is easy to come back from.
She believes she married me soley etc. Im grateful for her indulgence of my fantasy and whilst I understand her motives for doing so Im also perplexed why she cant admit to her self that the physical sex is just that and enjoy it.
We are not into cucky games or anything strange, we like to take pics of the fun but thats about it. It just straight fun.
Ive heard all sorts of advice on how to get your wife to try it and I would suggest the following, an honest discussion and request at a suitable time, tell her its for you and if she would indulge your fantasy, maybe reciprocate with something for her which probably wont be sex. If she agrees than make sure the meet is with someone good.
If your first guy has that awful BO that some black giuys seem to have and he is rough or hurried hurts her then it will be a once only event.
Try and meet someone who has already been with a couple. Try Adulty Friend Finder and try and get a refferal from another couple who can introduce you to a guy.

Hope this helps

sundown2 01-03-2010 12:41 AM

i wanna know how to convince hubby to let me fuck 2 bbcs :-(

whitecuckmn 01-03-2010 04:56 AM

I will try that.....
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by wonglow (Post 3822)
Introduced my wife to a black friend. Invited him over for drinks. I left them alone on the couch for awhile. I came back and they were kissing. She asked if I minded, and I said no. She said she wanted to take him up stairs and finish this. I said go ahead. They were drunk and horny. Of course this is what I had planned all along.

I think your plan is a good idea. I think I will try that with my wife. A smooth talking black man is really good at getting into bed with women. After we all have a couple of drinks, I will disappear......

hotmixedcouple 01-03-2010 09:56 AM

We had several experience of change wife and gang-bang. I like fuck one or more women and she like be fucked by 2 or more men. There is nothing bad in that. Also happened (few time to be honest) that I met others girl and she met other man alone.
About youar question of my wife with BBC, was a long job. I started showing her some IR movies, in which black men fucked latinas. my wife moreover is very similar to some porno actess (one called laurie vargas, one called jasmine birne and one called rio mariah) and she was very excited by that. So I started provocated her with BBC until that it happen whit one black couple. She liked a lot and now she tell that doesn't want to be fucked by others white men (she wants only my BWC) and that if we have to do swing, she wants only with BBC.
About what you told that several white women left them husband for BBC, this is not my problem, check my picture and you can watch that my cock is not smaller then one black.
Him

eunuch67 01-03-2010 10:03 AM

convincing
 
As I have said before, my Peggy was already into BBC long before I met her. Her first husband divorced her because she was a black cock slut and she would prostitute herself for it. I married her for her sexual prowess, which has always been far above mine. She is Master and I am acceptedly her Slave or Wuss or Bitch or Piss Ant, among other titles. One thing she agrees with is that a woman will make her own decision about sex and swinging and interracial. If she wants to then she will, if she doesn't then it may not be possible to convince her. The best alternative is to find a Sub woman that will be Slave to a man and do as you desire, the opposite of Peggy and I. With us, Peggy makes me suck cock as a slave that gets no pussy, you basically want a woman just as sub that will take black cock on your command. So it's the levels of who's the top and who's the bottom as much as the convincing I think.

whitecuckmn 01-03-2010 11:07 AM

I AM TEMPTED to try drugs on my wife so she is in a state where she would welcome BBC and feel more free to let him SEDUCE AND FUCK HER.
Any comments, suggestions, or types of drugs that would work and a general idea of how to get them?

denny33 01-03-2010 01:23 PM

convincing wife
 
We use to swing as a couple but had to quick as one or the other always jealous, then we tried the single scene for a while most white guys were a bomb, the one my wife really liked fucking had a larger dick and fucked her good but was an ass after a few years he starting mistreating her, we were all three best friends, he just was into himself. Then she tried seducing a younger guy she worked and traved with he never lasted more then a few strokes loved fucking her but just could not hang in there she would put her mouth on his dick and swallow it all but he lasted but 1 minute at most then could not get it up again , so we gave up after a year I was traveling on bussinees to Miami and found a guy in black cavern and we decided to help me show her around while I worked ,he started calling her and in 3 weeks they were having phone sex and she was fucking me telling him on phone how she wanted it to be his dick, when they got together it was magic I have posted pictures on web site he fucked her for hours she was hooked wanted Black dick only. Then we moved to Arkansas and we tried another guy and after talking a lot he came to visit wife wanted to take it slow,when he showed up brought him to our place and visited a couple hours no sex talk, then I went to bed was working at 400am and after about 30 minutes she had not come up went downstairs and her a moan looked in his bedroom she was laying on bed he was fucking her bent over bed , I watched as next hour , hottest sex but now in Aekansas no good black men cannot find a good one

4winds04 01-03-2010 11:35 PM

Hasn't happened yet!
 
I haven't had the pleasure of seeing my wife black cocked because it hasn't happened yet. There have been a couple of near misses and at one time a burgening flirty freindship with a black co-worker she had for a while, but they have both since found other jobs and have lost contact. AQ real shame as he was starting to make some real 'ins' with her. He had her thinking about what he might be like to fuck him, though he didn't know that. She loved to flirt with him and was starting to get a little brazen with him, liking to play teasing games with him and she was feeling comfortable enough to be a little slutty around him.

Some of the other close ones were with black men that danced with her while we were out partying downtown. I like to find the bars and clubs where there are mostly black men so that she's saturated in the envirement and thinking black as the drinking gets her horny.


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