Corn Flake Couples/Singles
 

Hello people. I've been on this site for a long time now and have seen just about everything you can imagine. Real hot couples and singles who are down for a hot night in a hotel room, and those who play it by ear but aren't as forthcoming. Today, I felt it was VERY important that I bring a long-standing yet bothersome issue to the table. One that I'm sure everyone on here can agree with. And certainly one that will cause a serious rise, especially among the ones who are really "pretenders" in the lifestyle.

I coined the term "corn flakes" months ago on this site in the chat room. Now a lot of you will think of "Corn Flakes" as cereal. However, it's a perfect term for this thread. Corn Flakes is a term used to describe a couple/single who flaunts their sexuality at online sites, but they eventually never follow through on their sexual engagements with their aspiring sex partner. The couples/singles will meet a potential sexual partner on a site at first. Afterwards, the sexual exploits are put out there by both parties and it gets exciting. The parties both agree that they can make a sexual engagement happen once they really get to know each other well. So after a lot of interaction between the couple and partner over the period of time, THE DAY finally arrives for the engagement to happen. You'd figure both parties would be excited to finally meet each other in-person; however, sadly enough this is not the case. This is the part when one of the parties doesn't show up at the hotel, cafe', or other meeting place designated previously. The whole thing gets shot to hell and a lot of animosity builds up. In some cases, the parties will meet on-line in a chat room. Unfortunately, it's about as far that meeting will go as one party tries to inspire the other to go the extra mile while the other makes a TON of excuses as to why not. Then there are those singles/couples who do meet up successfully; however, the conversation goes nowhere as one of the parties comes off like a true amateur by getting cold feet and/or by off-tangent conversation.

These corn flake-types are the parent cause to the frustrating efforts people go through to make a simple sex engagement happen. It causes a lot of uneasy feelings among the parties involved. Sometimes, people are totally discouraged and call it an end to the lifestyle because they think it's all a big joke. Although sexual engagements do happen a lot, one would believe that you would strike out more than you would hit grand slams if they didn't believe this lifestyle was more than the lame-ass professional porn you see on the web.

In conclusion, I will say that your's truly has run into these kinds of people in the past and it's really annoying indeed. This lifestyle, like other walks of life, has a lot to do with your WORD. If your word is no good, then you are no good. And in the adult stage of your life, your WORD is the only thing that matters, nothing else will do.

You're either the real deal or you're a Corn Flake? Which is it?

Kinda Corny!
 

That's word my brutha! And it's precisely why I'm not really active at all in the "lifestyle" and have not been so for many, many years now. It's just not worth the effort you need to expend in order to find somebody who is "for real". Forget the chat rooms, forget the cams, and forget the pictures and ALL that jazz. You for real? Then give me your phone number and be close enough to meet IN PERSON . . . FACE-TO-FACE . . . UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL . . . for a no-obligations first-time meet and greet . . . or just plain forget it! And don't for a minute think that you're "for real" because you're willing to show your face (or more) on cam. Sure, that can prove whether you're male or female. BUT, If you're not getting together and fucking, then you ARE NOT for real! You're just somebody (an exhibitionist maybe) who likes to communicate by cam. REAL swingers are MEETING and FUCKING! Now, I calls 'um "flakes" . . . but "corn flakes" works too :) Whatever you want to call 'um, they don't waste one nanosecond of my time anymore!

Frosted Flakes
 

I like it.
 

I like the term.

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Never heard it called "Corn Flake" ..
 

But "Yep" I like that term!
And it get's my "Vote" ;)

well said & spread the message to all the fakes out there :)

Cornflakes, lol, cute term but why corn?

We have had so many no shows over the years, and by no shows I mean all parties have a designated place to meet and then maybe take it to a hotel and the other party, usually a single guy, doesn't show up. Frustrating.

However at the same time when it comes to planning an initial meeting with other folks we warn people that we stay so busy with our lives between work, family, and regular play friends that if they want to meet us they have to practice patience. It can take a while for us to be able to meet, but we have never no showed on anyone after we've scheduled to meet.

Just our 2 cents, for what it's worth.

Well said bruh well said

agree
 

yes I know that feeling. as a truck driver even harder because at times schedule gets changed or I come to a city and no shows...... frustrating.