
02-22-2014, 01:42 PM
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Junior Member
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Join Date: Oct 2013
Posts: 20
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Speaking Strictly For Me
First of all - I'm here, so obviously I like black men! I grew up a country girl and went to college at a Midwestern university, and still live on a ranch. I think I have been very lucky, because I have not been exposed to very many people who were just ugly prejudice.
My girlfriends and I never based our attraction to somebody on what their skin color was. That being said - my two best friends growing up and I were always sharing pictures of black men and talking about how gorgeous they were. We all dated at least one black man in college, and I had a group of black men that were in a study group that met once a week.
I somehow became a friend to several of the men, but seriously never thought too much about sleeping with any of them. Probably because they would always talk to me and confide in me about the "crazy" white women in the college and around town who would hit on them. I didn't want to be another irritating woman in their lives. I'm digressing here - sorry.
Conclusion from my experiences:
High school - 50% of the girls were curious about black men, but there weren't many available where I lived.
College - 75% of the women were curious about black men, and dated at least one at some point. We all loved talking to men of all sorts, because we are girls; but I would talk more to black men because I had gotten to know the men in my group and their friends.
After Marriage - All my girlfriends have at least one black man that they are curious about, or that they gasp when they see him on TV or video or in person.
I, personally, never had sex with a black man until I was over 40 years old. I was seduced by a 30 year old handsome man who flirted with me while my hubby and I were separated. But that is another story.
I'm here because I am very attracted to black men and I like to look. We have played some, but are not actively involved in the "lifestyle". I have had a couple of LTR with black men and have had a few - okay, several - that I've met irregularly to play. Now, I am just here as a spectator; and I hope that is okay? It's fun for me to remember the times I've had and hear about what people are doing, and I also enjoy flirting - as long as everyone understands that it is just flirting. Always want to make that clear up front, because I have had plenty of people asking me what I'm doing here if I don't want to date. I truly had no idea this was a dating site when we made an account. We just like to look! I am 100% attracted to black men!
Cheers!
Dee
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