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I've never been with a man of color before but there's a lot of cute black guys in my neighborhood. One i'm really into works at the corner store by our apartment and i've been wanting to flash him but i'm worried he'll tell my bf or i'll get "a name" in the neighborhood

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Take the opportunities to talk to him and don't be shy about letting him know how hot he makes you, but you don't want your bf to ever find out or get a bad name. "Can you keep secrets?" is a great way to get assurance.

Good luck. Also if your bf shows an interest in being cuckolded, work that angle. If he likes porn, try some with black men with white women, especially white WIVES and husbands in it. If he really gets horny then, suck him and tell him to talk DIRTY aloud!

Let me know how it works, please. I hope this is helpful.

great idea with the "can you keep secrets?"! but my bf would lose it if I ever put on interracial porn. he's not a fan, lol

Thank you for the comment.
Well, who knows? He just MIGHT get turned on by it if he thinks you might be interested. When with him, try to show interest in black men, ESPECIALLY BY staring at their crotches. Sometimes a bf or husband does get turned on by the taboo aspects of it.

If it doesn't work with him, you would need to do it behind his back.
Another option is to find a new bf!

Good Advise
 

Good advise WhiteCuckMN. You covered all aspects. I would add just couple of things.
Start with a Mature Black Man. Once the first experience is out of the way, you will be fine. Keeping the secret is the most important in your case. Your current BF is not going to enjoy this at any level. I would be worried. A new BF is not out of question if you consider the long term prospects.
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Does he say he's not a fan of IR porn? Did you try looking into his browser history? He wouldn't be the first white dude with a white gf, who's secretely watching cute white girls get taken by massive black cocks.

But even if he really isn't into that, you could still strike up a conversation with the black dude you're into. "can you keep secrets?" is a great opener!