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Anyone have a similar experience?
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Old 05-15-2009, 03:19 PM
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Default Anyone have a similar experience?

I was married for nearly 10 years and all that time I would have never thought about seeing my wife with another man. As it turned out, I discovered my wife was having an affair. Somehow, I knew who it was; a black man I had seen around in the rather small town we lived in. He wasn't a local, but conducted business there often, I had even met him once.
My first reaction was to tell my that we were though and needed to divorce, to which she coolly replied " I know ". I was hurt, devastated and confused. After about an hour or so, I went to her and asked if there wasn't anything I could do, maybe we could work things out and I still loved her. She told me I was doing what she wanted already, leaving. So we divorced. It wasn't the sex or a black/white thing why she cheated. She wanted a divorce, but couldn't do it, so she cheated so I would be the one to leave her.
Now , years later,it turns me on thinking about what it would have looked like seeing her , a petite 5' tall woman, having sex with that tall 6'+ black guy. It gets me excited to think "what if" we stayed together and she continued to see her black lover and she even got pregnant by him. Now I'm hoping that the next woman in my life would be willing to share that "what if" with me.
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