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Join Date: Aug 2025
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Older Couple
I've been looking for a forum to find out more about interracial couples with a situation I'm in and we'll, here I am.
I have a couple questions for any women on here at the end, here's my situation.
I'm a college student entering my second year, I go to school close to my hometown. As the school year was ending, I attended a job fair as I was looking for employment for the summer. My boyfriend who also goes to the same school came with me. At one table we met a couple who own multiple businesses in the town and are well known for community work. They are about 45-50, she's white and he's black. While discussing with them what I was looking for, the husband said "we can definitely find you a spot with that smile" and after further discussion I left my resume and continued on. When we left the table my boyfriend said the husband was checking me out and flirting but I didn't see it that way.
A couple days later I got a call from the wife saying they would like to meet me again, after mentioning this to my boyfriend he said stay away from that creep. He can be jealous sometimes but with a couple weeks left of school and a need for a job I met them. They offered a job at the boat marina they own, working the front gate (basically a glorified shed lol) letting people in that were guests, selling ice and fuel. Obviously my boyfriend wasn't too keen on it but I still didn't see what he saw.
The couple owns a boat at the marina and works out of there most of the time, for their other businesses. I mostly saw the wife in the beginning, but the husband started bringing me iced coffees and chatting with me. He started saying "there's the flavour of the day" and "hey pretty, can I get you anything?". But the way he says it is like he doesn't mean anything by it just kinda of joking.
I wasn't sure if his wife would love that until one night they came back to the marina after dinner and drinks and he said something along the lines of "there she is, we were just talking about you and how the boaters think you much better eye candy than the last gate attendant". His wife laughed and said "well he knows how to pick them". They chatted a bit with me and as a couple they seem to be comfortable with how each other communicates with people in this manner. The wife made a comment about how young women keep getting more petite and how she used to be my size (she's not big herself but self deprecates). She always talks about her husband in a way like she's pitching him to me but maybe I'm just thinking too much into it.
Now to the situation, today he asked me what I'm doing this weekend as it's my last week of work before going back to school I said just sitting by the pool and working. He asked if I wanted to come on their boat Saturday and order dinner and have some drinks and I said I've got the night shift. He said okay no problem, chatted a bit and went down the dock to his boat. Shortly after, his wife half buzzed came up and told me she switched my shift to the day time so I could enjoy the evening with them. Kind of an aggressive move I thought and couldn't say no so I said sounds fun and works for me. She said I could put my bike on their boat and stay the night. Thought that was different but also said that might be a possibility.
So my question for the women here is, do you think this is a kind gesture? Or further intentions attached to it? Do older interracial couples mix it up like that? My thoughts are since the wife is there it'll be just what it is, dinner and some drinks on the boat. I definitely like this job and want it again next year so I wouldn't want to mess that up. Maybe I'm overthinking it because of what my boyfriend said. The husband is definitely attractive and fit and I have a tendency to flirt when drinking but I also like what I have going on and my boyfriend is great to me. I'm just wondering what you would do, whether it's to not go (awkward as I don't have an excuse and it's the last shift) or would you go and enjoy the offering?
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