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[ladynva1968]

Ok, my marital sex life has pretty much been null and void for about 3 yrs. About 3 months ago I had an unplanned encounter with a black guy I work with. Have now seen him 5 times since then. At the time I did not get with him just because he was black. In fact I never really had an urge to be with a black man before. It was just that one thing led to another and it just happened. Turns out it was the most incredible sex of my life! Anyway, I feel like I should have feelings of guilt but I don't. Am I a bad person for not feeling guilty?

[al3030]

I don't think so you have the right to be happy besides you gotta use what you have to get what you want

[skull1]

You shouldn't feel guilty for making your self feel good, my husband don't know about any of my bbc friend's an i have several bbc friends that I meet weekly I am a slut for bbc now an I love it so all I can say is live it up you only live once.

[mynaughtymilf]

If your husband is not fulfilling your needs, then you have every right to do what makes you happy and shouldn't feel any guilt over it. Especially if its purely a physical relationship you're having with this black guy. Just go with it! It will make you a better and more productive woman in every aspect of your life . . . that gleam in your eye and the energy you radiate after having outrageously great sex with your Black lover . . . it's absolutely PRICELESS!

[shocked]

You should try to slowly get your hubby turned on by the idea of cheating and interracial sex. Give out little innuendos and watch interracial porn with him. Get him to fantasize about it. At some point you should train him to be okay with it and to realize how lucky he is. When you break the idea to him, he may even be relieved that he is no longer expected to perform what he cannot, provided you assure him that you still love him and would never leave him. The process could take months or years but you should get him to like the idea and be supportive so that you can stop living this double life that women in the 21st century shouldn't have to. Of course do not break it to him until you are sure that he will be okay with it.

[vikkiem126]

nope, don't you feel guilty at all. your hubby aint taking care of you and you have every right to get what you need.

so, you only seen him about 5 times? I'm surprised he hasn't wanted to get with you more often. Or, maybe he does since you feel kinda guilty he's not pushing you. If I was you, I would get it once or twice a week.

[ladynva1968]

Believe me its not for lack of wanting. Small town here and finding discreet opportunities isn't easy

[wolfblue123]

You definitely shouldn't feel guilty. In my experience, wives who cheat on hubby seem to have much happier marriages once they come to terms with and give into their sexual needs. The only real challenge for you is to find someone you can see regularly, who won't get overly attached (assuming that's what you want), and who has a suitably big cock for you to ride.

One of the biggest kinks that cheating wives seem to enjoy (again, just based on my encounters) is to meet with me and get creampied a couple times before date night w/hubby. They get seriously turned on by the secret thrill of having another man's cum inside them while hubby is romancing them ... I have to admit, I find it rather hot too

[jimbrowski]

My question would be if the sex life with your "husband" has been non exsistent for 3 years, why are you still with him??? I fuck around with 2 married white women presently, and they both say similar things. I couldn't be with a women that wasn't satisfying me for 3 years, because I would then have to get a divorce and or cheat.

[beckyandtom]

why feel guilty about someth that wa unplanned or unexpected ihave don it int he past and told hubby about it he always said he wsa o.k. since i told him