Hi. New here and in exactly the same position.
I've had the fantasy of either watching my wife fuck a black guy(s) or even watching a sexy stranger do the same IRL.
I've often told myself that fantasies should remain fantasies but the desire grows stronger all the time
We're both in our 50's but look much younger with fit bodies. People assume we must be at it all the time but it's quite the opposite as we let busy lives get in the way so often feel tired etc
I've never really told her my fantasies (as it scares me that it will affect our marriage negatively) but I think she may have an idea from the occasional random non porn related comment
I know she's fucked at least 1 black man before we met (they got chatting in a pub, then went back to hers/his) - she told me it was the biggest cock she ever had (and mine is a bit above average for a white guy) and she particularly liked experiencing the contrast on different coloured skin again each other
She also said a few months ago that if she was ever in the position of dating again, she would likely choose a black guy. I dared to ask her why and she said because she liked how dominant (in persona) they generally are. This upset me a little but also excited me.
She comes across quite conservative but I feel that's because she daren't open up to me the same as I daren't to her.
We did get into a deep chat about our sex life recently and admitted she had a vibrator and does masturbate so feel like we've made a little progress in our chats
So yes, it's what the next move should be. It's very scary but personally, like many others have suggested on the forum, watching some IR porn together would work very well and sure it could become a regular thing and maybe move onto something IRL
Hmmmmm
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