Why did she quit after 4 years?
They say you can never go back. So, why did she stop? I can think of some reasons
1) Social fear. She could have been afraid of someone finding out. You do that kind of thing for a while and someone is going to slip up and then people at work could find out. While pretty much everyone is understanding of dating black men these days, you could get judged harshly for recreational sex with black men while married. Someone sees you with him alone at your house and the neighbors start chatting it up and one of them knows your aunt, etc.
2) Family. She could be worried as the kids get older that they will catch on. Girls are often really good at social cues and a little remark could cause some sleepless nights wondering if she knows or exactly what she might have seen. Most everyone wants to keep that protective shield in place.
3) Love. Maybe her bull was getting too attached and trying to convince her to leave her husband. Or, maybe her emotions were getting too strong for him and she didn't want to risk breaking up her family. Maybe, her bull found someone else and she's depressed about it because she cared for him a lot and doesn't want just any black man.
4) Pregnancy. Birth control is pretty effective with most being 98 to 99%. That means 1 to 2 per hundred pregnancies per year are to be expected under ordinary conditions. However, a black bull or some of his friends having you when they feel like it can result in a lot of sperm trying really hard to make a black baby in you. Long, thick penises shooting large loads of cum in you isn't really the "ordinary" sex they mean to produce a 1 to 2% per year pregnancy rate. Also, when you orgasm that actually helps the sperm find your egg for various biological reasons. And, trust me, when you are most at risk for an accidentally pregnancy (while ovulating) is the exact same time you really want a black cock down there. Men may not realize this, but when you're ovulating, you really, really want the dick so much more than at other times. If she got pregnant and had to end it, she probably is quite upset about it.
So, there are some ideas why a white woman might walk away from IR sex. If you really want her to be happy and resume, scout some black men she might like. If she likes one of them, she's much more likely to want to sleep with him.
Last edited by Julie0778A; 04-03-2023 at 01:08 AM..
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