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Originally Posted by PlayingMILF50
My first couple of experiences when I was much younger, were not about race or color at all.
However, 20 years later when I revisited interracial sex mostly to please my husband’s desire to watch, it was much different. I found there were several factors that added a new level of excitement. Being older I felt the ‘taboo’ of the situation more than when I was young and single. It felt like it was more about pure sex, instead of a relationship. I can totally let go of any inhibitions and concentrate on total enjoyment for me and my partner now. It gives me the pleasure of being as slutty as I want without any feeling of guilt or judgement.
Another bonus is I love being that woman everyone would “least suspect”.
Jenn
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This is a very thoughtful response and probably honest and would reflect mine. Rather than dispute any of it I would add a little context for me. I grew up in a predominantly black are and went to a predominantly black HS. I would have probably dated someone in HS but it was not really a thing there. Yes, there were a few girls who did, and we heard all the banter and talked about the prowess of black men. Still, I only slept with 2 guys before going into the marines. I had thought the sex was not all that great and I would think about the conversations I would hear from girls who were dating black men. I was on my 3rd while in the marines a black friend of my boyfriend decided he wanted to seduce me while my boyfriend was deployed. When he did it, he was all about letting me know this was not about relationship this was just lust and 2 people satisfying each other physically and experimenting.
I guess I write all of this to say she is correct. It just being about the sex and physical pleasure is a big part of it. Being that person that no one expects you are. Being free to do it knowing you have a partner that takes great pleasure in satisfying you and is well equipped for the task at hand.
All the things you mention in the original post just add to the fact the taboo the contrast surrendering to them. Added together it is all very exotic and addictive.