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Originally Posted by bankerpres
First, let us define cheating. I agree with many threads that I have seen on this website. If your spouse knows and approves then it is not cheating. So, now my question is; "What if your spouse would never approve of sex with other men, is it alright to cheat?"
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My wife had a 4 or 5 year long affair with a younger married black co-worker, He was married to a beautiful black woman his own age but his wife was more into religion than sex. They also had 2 small children. I suspected they were having an affair but she never would admit it but he did but never told her I knew.
I am small endowed and don't last long so I had no problem with her getting what she needed sexually. I suspect she has cheated since but we have been together 32 years so I guess it is no threat to our marriage.
Only you know your feelings for you husband and your situation.