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Originally Posted by BubbleButtRebecca
Way to sensitive hun. Its a lifestyle term, get over it. There are terms for all members of the lifestyle. Please get over the sensitivity. I mean no offense when I say this, but the "African Americans" seem to have an issue when its comes to being called anything other. What about the Women saying they are tired of being called, "hotwife", or anything other than "Women". Stop trying to make everything termed anti black.
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Agree! Like women being called a slut or a whore. At times they are and other times they are not. That slut or whore is very often also a mother, a wife and a well respected member of her community. But with her man in bed she will be that slut or whore he wants her to be or she wants to be with him. I don't mind being called a "BULL". I am flattered. Cause it refers to a very large dominant animal that no one wants to fuck with because of his size and power. Personally I would rather be called a LION!
I also want to say that I respect his opinion. But he failed to realize that it's not only the "BULL" that goes out of his way to meet at hotel/motel etc... He gave too much importance to just the "BULL" or black man meeting. And not enough on the woman or couple taking time out of their busy schedule to meet him as well. All the arrangement they too may have had to make with the kids, family, work and other real world situation to meet him. And who's to say the feeling of doing something that may seem wrong is not shared evenly???
So! I agree. Relax. Stop being so sensitive. If you continue to be. Then this is not where you belongs. Can't we all just get along??? And remember! Show respect for each other no matter what you're into or referred to.