ddpa, sounds like all you really want your wife to do is screw a man in front of you, for your own mental pleasures. That's not cuckolding. Simply inviting a 3rd party to join you and your wife will probably surfice. That way its purely SEX; no emotions, no egos.
As far as regretting it later, test the waters first ... make the 3rd party use a condom, that way if you regret it and wish to stop it later, you can honestly say his cock hasn't actually touched the inside of her pussy, and its over.
Be sure you know what cuckolding is all about, ddpa, before you start it. There are basically 2 types of cuckolding; one is fantasy play cuckolding, and the other, real cuckolding. What you see on here, for the most part, is fantasy play. The difference in the two is "who maintains control".
Fantasy play cuckolding is really no more than one-way swinging; a married guy wishes to watch his wife have sex with other men. Another name for it is WITTOL ... look it up! There are bunches of fetish spin-offs to it ... creampie, bbc, humiliation, bondage, sissyfying, milking, should we mention pregnancy? ... etc ... but the primary thing to keep in mind is, that the husband can pull the plug on it at any time. Once he bores with it, he stops it.
True cuckolding is a whole different story ... the wife is cheating with other men (infidelity) and the husband may or may not know it, but the wife is the one who controls the situation. What she does is none of her husband's business; he can either tolerate it, try to enjoy it, or leave ... it will make no difference to her. For the cuck, there's usually depression, anger, even violence in some cases.
Lastly, you say you would prefer a black guy to a white guy ... now that's funny, 'cause I can almost assure you if you start with a black guy first ... he's gonna own that pussy before the end of the month, and you'll be sitting and jerking off as she gets more and more addicted to black cock. So, if I were you, I'd start off really simple ... getting into a 3-way with you, your wife and another guy, first ... with condoms. If it works out, move to the next step. Or, you can do as most people here would tell you to do ... find you a Black Bull and get it over with ... lol Keep us posted ... Mac
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