[mikewhitey]

There are some things that, in my opinion, make it easier to steer your woman into a receptive state of mind concerning becoming a slut for BBC. Part of it is natural temptation, part of it is the attraction of the “taboo”, part of it is the undeniable desire to feel sexy, attractive, and desired. There is also the issue of trust and security.

To emphasize any one of these while neglecting the other could have less than desirable results. To take them in reverse order, you can’t do anything in this area unless your woman trusts you implicitly. Her first instinct is going to be to assume you are looking for a loophole to have an affair of your own, she’s going to question your loyalty to her and for any woman, but especially a sub, that’s going to threaten her feeling of security. You will be wise to give a great deal of attention to reassuring her in this area. This goes hand in hand with framing your hints toward the idea of swinging in terms which play to anyone’s natural desire to be found attractive. I know in our situation, more ground was covered when she became willing to believe that she really was sexy and desirable - hot - than by any other single factor. It’s more important to make her feel hot than almost anything else that will be suggested to you henceforth. Once you have that pair of factors firmly in place, and this should be done as much as is possible BEFORE you ever approach the idea of swinging or IR activity, THEN you can begin to execute the more direct program.

What you will do, from now on, is to identify, help her to recognize, and feed her desire to break free from the limitations that society has placed on her and experience the height of sexuality. The breaking of societal rules (in its various forms) is the natural excitement of challenging “taboos”. Whether it’s public nudity, bisexuality, or any of a hundred other “kinks” - among which IR sex, and promiscuity are certainly listed - all of us, male or female, find a certain thrill in defying those limits. Your job is to develop a hunger in your woman to free herself from that bondage. Further, you have to channel that broad desire in the direction of fucking black men, if that’s what you desire to see her do.

In part three, I’ll finally get down to the brass tacks of methodology that has worked for many husbands before you.



Okay then, this one will probably be brief because most of it is stating the obvious. You lay the groundwork on this subtly, At first you do it just a little at a time. First of all, if you do not talk during foreplay - shame on you! Get started. Whenever your mouth is not in action on some part of her body, by manipulating her mind. Tell her how hot and sexy she is, how every man would love the chance to fuck her (if course language shocks her, use some euphemism to start (do NOT say “make love”....that’s what people IN love do). Say “get with you” or some such to start but you want to move her towards the coarser stuff. Remember, a key element here is to play to her ego. The more you can get her to see herself as a sexually deliverable person, the better. If you can get her to respond vocally, that’s a very good, but not essential, element. Get her to the point where she begs, demands, to be fucked (this involves LONG foreplay sometimes so man-up. One good play here is to take her to the edge through foreplay and not let her have satisfaction until she begs to be fucked - in those words - and when she does, ask her “Who do you want to fuck you?” and see if you can get her to say “anybody!” This is not essential, but it shows you have an advanced case.

Is your lady accustomed to porn? If not, this may be a tough hurdle for you - especially if you have a really “good girl” who thinks it’s degrading. Start her then, with very subtle, soft core stuff. She’s a woman and she will react...if she doesn’t, you probably have a woman who can’t be a slut ever. Escalate it as quickly as possible to the harder stuff but strive mightily to stick to the “amateur” look porn - the stuff that sledges to be involving the MILF next door. Try to avoid the plastic tit doped-up looking girls with skyscraper shoes and huge tats for now. Why? Because you are not just trying to turn her on for a quick fuck, you are trying to change how she sees herself. And as you spend many hours telling her how hot and desirable she is, and she also spends time seeing what hot and desirable wives do....the two will mingle in her mind on a subconscious level. Of course, it goes without saying that the male population of these movies show, over time, increasingly be black men.
An important aspect of this...when black guys start showing up, begin to incorporate that in your foreplay. I assume you are pushing her buttons while the movie is playing (if you aren’t, you are insane) and when you see a black guy on screen, you comment in subtle ways - “Isn’t she loving that big black rod” or “he looks like he’s pounding her good with the big black dick” or whatever...but always emphasizing the word black. If he’s hitting a white girl, you must of course, mention that too - “mmmmm, that little white girl is loving that big black dick in her pussy, huh?”


At some point, when you ask her questions during foreplay, you want to find the chance to say something like “Did you ever wonder what it would feel like to have a big black cock in you?” or “you ever wonder if it’s true what they say?” and when she asks what, you of course give her the size myth or brag on how good they are or even the “once you go black...” cliche.
By the time this stage is done, you should be regular viewers of exclusively interracial porn, you should never have a sex session in which you don’t call to her mind, at her horniest point, the images she say of black dicks and white women, and you should be able to get her to at least allude to a curiosity or a turn on about the subject. If you haven’t by now, you should introduce the thickest black dildo you think she can handle. Forget length, if it’s at least 8" it’s fine....but be sure it’s fat. The combined effect of foreplay, good IR porn, and a fat black dildo are gold. She should, it goes without saying, NEVER see a white dick on film by now.

Finally, if she’s a drinker, it would not hurt to lightly associate drinking with this stage since some “good girls” need the mental “excuse” to play that comes from blaming it on liquor. So it’s good to have the association made.