[mikewhitey]

The next stage is a continuation of the last, except that you begin to take things outside the bed. You should, of course, already be trying to keep her sexual energies maxed out. If you haven’t at least TRIED to fuck her on the kitchen table by now, then step it up. Now you begin to take it outside the house. Encourage her to show more skin - “after all,” you testify, “anyone as hot as you are ought to take advantage of it”...to the extent she does, she again is reminded of herself being a hot, sensual woman, and not just “wife and mom”. Another big advantage of this is that you point out to her guys who are checking her out. They should ALWAYS be black guys, and lie if you have to. Again, it’s critical she feel desirable and specifically desirable to black guys. You follow up on this be asking her things during foreplay like “Did you see that UPS guy checking your ass? He wants you baby! (She protests probably) Nothing, I just saw him checking you out...I bet you’d love to see what brown can do for you, huh?” (Big smile and wink). Try to get her to confess she had a thought of wondering about a black guy as often as you can.

Assuming this is successful (if she’s not seriously ordering you to “knock it off with that black guy shit cause I don’t like that!” it’s been successful) now is the time you seriously begin planting the swinger idea in her head. You should be careful here to make it ALWAYS about HER. “I’d love to watch another man fuck you” NOT “We should start swinging” - she may hem and haw on this decision for a long time....just keep pushing the buttons you see working and making sure as much as possible her sexual thinking is subconsciously associated with fucking blacks.


Now, you are nearing the moment of truth. She is going to arrive at a point in her own mind, though she may or may not reveal it to you, where she is too intrigued by the concept to NOT try it..I say this because the woman who is adamantly never ever going to has already gotten off the bus before you get to this point. If a woman is still playing along, she wants it, she will do it, she just hasn’t realized it yet. But somewhere in this stage, she is going to come to that realization. If she keeps that choice to herself, you may find that she presses ahead and follows through with it without your participation - especially if she works outside the home and has that sort of flexibility. You should be prepared to deal with that.

On the other hand, she may tell you - probably the first time in the heat of passion - that she is willing. In fact, she may affirm her willingness during foreplay or sex several times, then deny it later, before she reaches the point that she will tell you in a non-sexual situation that she is willing. At this point, the trail diverges in several directions. There is no one specific course once she says yes. For some couples, you go out to a club, employ some alcohol, and let nature take it’s course. For others, you methodically solicit interest on line and carefully screen those who have interest and meet for a discreet hotel encounter. Still others take a vacation to some distant city where she can “let her hair down”. There are also swing clubs, the staged seduction, and several other variations. No one method is right for every couple because circumstances vary too greatly from location to location and situation to situation.

On a final note, you should be considering by this point just what the final outcome is that you are going for. Understanding, of course, that it may get out of your control and take on a life of it’s own, it’s still good for you to have a “vision” of what your end game is. For many couples, once she has her first, the mission is accomplished. On the other extreme are couple who are not just looking for “a little extra spice” but seek to entirely redefine who she is sexually. If you tend towards the latter end of that spectrum, it may be that it comes natural to her to be ever-expanding her sexual adventurousness, or it may be that you still have a great deal of manipulation ahead of you - it all depends on her personality, her previous conditioning, and how extreme the change is you want to make. In any case, you need to exhibit considerable patience. Many women have a very deep conditioning in the mental habits of a “good girl” and as much as they want to be free of those restraints, it does not always come easy.

Good luck to you and to her on your journey, and if you have SPECIFIC questions, feel free to ask in this thread.