[hephaestus]

Originally Posted by Durfer

Yeah, I dont really have that to worry about (getting caught) as my girl already knows how much I would love to see her on her hands & knees getting her pussy and/or mouth filled with a 10" black cock. I have told her as much. She says no, as most women usually do, asks why I would want to share her, (dont you love me?) ect., I have told her repeatedly that the biggest turn on for me in this is watching the expression on her face, listening to the sound of her purring (as I call it) voice as she is being streched & touched in places she has never felt before (places I just physically cannot go) & that its not about the person she is with, but its ALL about her enjoyment. Seeing her being satisfied is what gets me off.
Hep, I know you are exactly right in that this will take more time than most, but I honestly believe I can & will get her there as I firmly believe (after knowing her for 25 years), that deep in her heart she would love this & wants it. She just cant seem to bring herself to admit it to herself. Once that happens, and whenever it happens, I think the whole thing will progress easier & faster. She is already refering to "black" things with an Impish grin if you know what I mean. your observation on "The bigger the cock the more dirty it is I think is spot on. Also your shame versus guilt is a point i have not thought about. All I know is that the only thing i care most about is getting her released from her inhabitions. You are also correct in that i have had a plethera of shit to work through with this girl as her parents really screwed her up as a child.

Originally Posted by mikewhitey

Hi Durfer,

I feel for you with the screwed up shit; mine falls in the same category too. Making for some real past pain with getting her to think about anything to do with other men.

Interestingly it doesnt seem to have ultimately inhibited her with this LW stuff as it worked under the surface and brought out that slut despite her past hangups. In someways it seems to have enhanced the dirty slut aspect for her and I think Heps got it right about this becoming a way for her to bypass responsibility by surrendering to the idea of being a submissive slut.

I'm not making light of it and being serious I think there's a lot of us out there with wives and girlfriends that have more than their share of sex hangups from warped authority figures. We've got a support group going right here and didn't even really know it. I guess if our girls had a entirely healthy outlook on sex we probably wouldn't be here using this Loving Whispers to freeing them up and yeah I totally agree and finding myself nodding Durfer about everything your saying. I know people from the outside might find what we say odd about really loving our wives so much that we want to bring out that best in them that beautiful slutty nature that as far as I'm concerned is every womans birth right!