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Originally Posted by tnblackstallion
Warning. If your wife is too conservative do NOT try this. My wife faked being sleep, told me the next day I creeped her out and is now barely talking to me. A word to the wise.
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Don't let this completely stop you from trying LW but instead go with a different plan so to speak. Explore all your options on her sleeping habits. Such as, when she has had very little sleep or has worked extremely hard and very tired. Those times would present a possibility for you.
I think it would be wise for you though to run a test before going through with any attempts of using the procedures considering your recent situation.. For example, try saying her name several times in the exact loudness of your voice that you want to use and see if she wakes up or answers you. If she does you just wanted to say I love you. If she doesn't then slip in a quite but quickie round of LW and then be prepared to act as if you were having a dream if she wakes up. These types of back up options are essential to have ready and waiting to implement in case an uh oh situation were to arise.
There are many options and different plans that you can explore and put into action. If one presents a problem always have a plan B for that one that will cover for it if something goes wrong. Thinking up these different plans and options can be done at any time while you are doing whatever. Driving, mowing the grass,working on your car, watching TV. You will be amazed at what you can come up with if you just do some thinking on it.
Here are some of the main keys to success with this system.
Preparation: You must have the preparation complete on your part to have different plans for different situations already thought up and be ready to use them. Think about the different things that could possibly go wrong and have a plan ready in case it does.
Testing The Waters: Experiments that can be utilized to test the situation for a safe venture is important. Her sleeping habits are one area. Before doing any whispers of conversion on her try some whispers of a different style first to see if she responds. You can use whatever you like first that wouldn't raise a flag if she did wake up. Maybe, Honey, Sarah called you today and I forgot to tell you. That is safe and will test her alertness.
The Main Plans And Their Backup Options: Do some thinking on these. Have a main plan of action then a backup plan or option in case of trouble. I can't really stress this enough.If you try something and it backfires on you then not having that second option to switch to can leave you hung out there to dry. Not a good feeling. This will work for you if you have it in your mind what to do and are able to do it quickly to steer the situation away from trouble if need be.
Guys, you must be ready to counter any problems that may arise and your mind is waiting to go to work for you in finding these different options. So put it to work for you and you will be pleasantly surprised at what you can come up with and even more so at the results if and when you have to use them.