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Originally Posted by Durfer
O.K. guys thanks for the input. I have an update on some progress as of yesterday.
One of the things my wife loves doing is riding bikes on 5 star trails in our area. So much so that we just bought 2 new (and rather expensive) bikes at the begining of the summer for this purpose, and have been on them quite a bit this year. Well about a week and a half ago, during one of my LW sessions, one of the things i tried was whispering, "you want to get black cock while we're on the bike trail" It was my attempt to possibly create a dream experience for her that may really turn her on. Well after a few days & no real results from that, I thought: "Well, that did'nt really have any effect" Then, yesterday, while we were riding bikes, she comments (very casually & out of the blue) that she has noticed that we generally see very few black men out either walking, or riding bikes on these trails as we do. The significance of this is simply that she would NEVER have thought of this on her own. It may not sound like much to some, but as has been stated in earlier posts, baby steps are what is required here and this is one. also as you said before hep, this is going to take awhile with my girl & I am willing to spend the time. I also found out from her, through the course of our conversation that she is somewhat intimidated by black men because of the stereotypical profile that they sometimes (Unfairly to be sure) recieve. I mentioned some black folks we know, (who are some of the finest people we have ever known) and told her that most black men are much like them and she agreed, but I know now that there is work to be done in that area. So as you can see I really do STILL have a ton of shit to wade through with her but I am pressing on.
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I agree its noticing those little things that to others just wouldnt sound like much but make our alarm bells ring like crazy and turn our heads "say what"! Baby steps have got me this far and whats interesting is overlaying one thing on top of the other new suggestions just make things progress that much quicker. Its like building a orchestra up to creshendo and those vibrations all mounting up and mingling together seem to be acting in unison.
I apologize Hep for drawing the focus away from LW I might be a little paranoid and agressive at heart coming from a city environemnt
I got nothing new to report at moment we re happy enjoying fantasy play and dildo and oral.I know I got to progress but damn im so enjoying this stage right now