I feel that I should interject something here that "we" all might be over looking.
First, let me fill you in on my experiences. I seem to be in the same boat with how far I'm getting.
I read the old NW blog and Hep's advice a couple of years ago.
We had been to a party and there was a good looking black guy there. I noticed how she acted and sort of back off and observed when see had the chance to speak to him. The body language was unmistakable.
We got pretty lit and she was zonked in bed right after we got home.
I thought I'd give what we're now calling LW a whirl. When I got close to her she reached for my cock as if we were going to fool around but she fell asleep with my cock in her hand. Okay, i thought, Ill just wait untill she falls asleep more. 15 minutes went by and her breathing was heavy and almost snoring (not typical). Her hand had slipped off my cock but was still down there.
My heart was racing (how loud should I be? What the hell am I going to say? What if she wakes up??)
So I started - "What a cute black guy. So cute. Cute black guy. mmmmm, what a nice big black cock." Her hand went for my dick. My brain was zinging. "Big black cock. So big mmmmm. I want to stroke it mmmm". I'm getting a short stroke, light touch, slow mo thing happening. My heart is going to bust! Her head is on my shoulder and she thinks she's strokin' a black cock!
I kept it up for maybe 10 minutes. I was talking a little hotter and she "woke" with a startle. I kissed her and told her not to stop while I grabbed her hand to keep it on my cock. She layed there for a few seconds.
Now, after reading what has transpired in the forum and some digging on my own, I figure that she really wasn't awake after all.
My kissing her and grabbing probably woke her. Now, I think she was gathering up her thoughts.
Needless to say I got one of the sloppiest and hottest blow jobs I've had in ages.
So it's been a couple of years. I got a big black dildo and she enjoys that if I'm not pushy. I have gotten some interracial movies. They make her hot and wet but the unprofessional professionalism turns her off. I've collected up some amature vids but the time it takes to edit/make them unnoticed makes it tough.
After following you guys I thought I'd give it a try again.
First off, Thank you Hep and every one here for the inspiration.
Last week i started again.
Waiting for the breathing etc. This time I was going to be a little hotter.
We had sex and played with the dildo just before she fell asleep. I had acknowledged "him" as a friend during our lovemaking.
"mmmm Big black friend - beautiful body what a big black cock. You love big black cock. mmmmm . pause... What a nice butt you just want to squeeze that butt. mmmm. Suck on that big black cock while you squeeze that butt. mmmm" Her legs moved and she turned to lay on her stomach. "mmm climb on top and make him cum. mmmm. Climb on top. mmmm Make him cum mmmmm. (she loves being on top) Her breathing got more heavy and rapid.
I figured I'd leave it at that but the heavy breathing went on for a few minutes.
Hep had said to suggest something that she wouldn't do necessarily...
"Lick his balls - those silky balls mmmm. Lick his balls then kiss me with a big sloppy wet kiss mmmm. Her breathing got faster an she "woke" and turned over again. I let it ride and called it a night.
She told me the next morning that she had a weird dream and woke with her heart racing.
I said the she rolled over and hugged me. Kind of a half smile then perplexed look on her face.
The reason why I'm posting is because of this morning. I presented our friend and while I was pumping her I put his balls near her face. She reached for them with her tongue! I let her suck on his balls for awhile and then she slobbered a big one on me in a hotter fashion than I'm used to. Needless to say that was the end for me. I couldn't hold back anymore.
It's working. No doubt, It's working.
Something we seem to be overlooking in these posts.
This process is really a cog in the wheel of multiple approaches to an end.
One of the things that have to be addressed are the insecurities that married women face when confronted with this option. That she may feel sub-consciously, this is being "pushed' on her..
"Does that mean he's looking for an excuse to cheat on me" etc etc. Other forums have covered this.
Maye LW could be used to alleviate those natural fears.
You could then reinforce those comforts in the waking moments when the time is right.
I see first hand the power of suggestion the LW can have.
Shouldn't it be used as a constructive adjunct to the relationship?
Sorry for the long windedness. I felt I had a lot of catching up to do.