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It is the BEST when a lover carries on with me as if my short-dick-comes-too-quick husband was a million miles away regardless if he is in the room.

I like a man to treat me as if I were HIS woman and it is HIS pussy, because that is exactly how I think of a lover. While we are naked together I AM my lover's woman and it certainly IS his pussy. And I make sure both my husband and my lover are aware of that. It is all the more so since my husband cannot provide for my sexual needs and really cannot satisfy me at all in bed.

My heart may belong to my husband, but my body and my pussy are MINE and for me to give to whoever pleases me. They will always belong to the man who can make me squeal and tremble.

I find the vast majority of men are far better lovers and take things to a far more intimate level if my husband is not present. So lately, even though my husband loves to watch me having sex with other men, I usually do not want him to be present. With some guys who I enjoy spending the night with that means my husband sleeps in the guest room.

Most guys I fuck do not want my husband present or even in the house. They want me all to themselves and who can blame them? I know I too am more intimate with a guy if my husband is not around and the sex is usually better as a result. So I have taken to inviting guys over when my husband is at work or working late. He knows not to come home until I call. Or if it is late or on a weekend, I simply ask my husband to leave the house before a guy is due to arrive and not come back until I call him on his cell.

Of course the best situation is when the guy is totally single and can invite me over to his place. In that case I usually spend the night. On occasion I spend an entire weekend.

Since my husband can't please me sexually, I want a date with a lover to be the best sex possible for ME! It took some time and patience but now I have trained my cuckold husband to think the same way. Now he is happy when I am happy and he takes pleasure in simply knowing I enjoy toe-curling sexual experiences naked in the arms of other men.

While I could not always say this: I am now glad I am married to a stubby dick, premature-ejaculating, submissive cuckold husband who knows his place is the sexual pecking order.

I would not have it any other way!