Take it real slow and start small
Hi Antk89,
Leave any suggestion alone for a few weeks and when you do start just act asleep and make sure your wifes breathing is relaxed then start with even just some gibberish - indistinct wording - test this to see if she comes out of sleep. Then either that night or following nights just do some "I love you so deeply" type talk. I think a real slow gradual building on the simplest and safest stuff to acclimatize her to hearing your voice at night - if you get caught like that then you can say "I must have been talking in my sleep" make a joke of it laugh it off and reapply the same course again so that she becomes used to expecting to hear you at night.
Either that or leave the method alone if you think its too dangerous.
Good luck on what you decide.
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