Hi, excellent post by the way. I am a black male in my early 40s and I am having a "relationship" with a 40 yo married white woman that has been going on for about a year and a half now. We met on another site and her husband was sort of the orchestrator of the whole thing, although I have never met him and don't plan to. I believe that is her preference that he not be involved but he seems to be content with the photos, video and stories that she provides from our encounters.
Anyways, to be honest, I believe that their sex life is MUCH better off now than before in my opinion. First off, she is getting the best of both worlds...a very loving relationship with her husband and a hot, passionate, yet also loving relationship with a black man...yes, we have strong feelings for each other and the husband knows this yet it seems to excite him even more and enhances their personal fantasies. For example, they once had me listen to them having sex on the phone-something that he had been hounding her to ask me to do for months. He really seemed to enjoy himself that night and it was kind of arousing for me as well. The next time we met I really put it on her...if you know what I mean.
I know that the sex is different between the two of us, for example she seems to save her pussy and ass for me when she knows we're going to meet by giving the hubby blowjobs instead. This is her preference. SHe loves giving head and can get him off quicker that way. They really don't have intercourse very often. I'm not sure if he prefers it this way or not, but I do know that he gets blown multiple times a day so maybe it's a good trade-off. lol He really does seem to be more into sending her off then hearing the stories afterwards rather than pleasing her himself.
I know I'm rambling but I think that if you enjoy sex with your hubby and you both are engaged in this fantasy equally then it should be pleasurable for both of you. I hope this helps a little let me know if you have any other questions for me and good luck to you!
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