I"m not sure where to start. My wife started out as a virgin before dating me and very religious. Our sex life was wonderful and fulfiling. Nonetheless, I had fantasies of her being with other men. It started with touching by her uncle. Then she gave the neighbor guy a wake-up bj.
There was the girl's trip to vegas where her friends and her went clubbing and went home with different guys every night. It's the religious quiet milfs that really make vegas fun.
Then her best friend was killed in a car accident and she got mad at god and got wild. I encouraged her and when she was helping the family get back on their feet, she started sleeping with our friend of 16 years. My wife 'always' connects sex and falling / being in love.. so she fell for this guy. This meant that he didn't want her to tell me the stories. This was betrayal. He treated her badly and she stopped it and came back to me emotionally.
Next, we went to vegas as a couple and visited a swinger club. We talked for a couple of hours... I thought we were on our way out the door. Then she ask me if it was ok for her to dance with this handsome black man that had been watching her. I was shocked, and very happy to say yes. they danced for a while. then the three of us went to a private room. it was beautiful for me to see my wife taken and subdued by a strong black man. Unfortunately, the room had time limits.. so we took him back to our hotel for more fun. It was a one-nighter and one of my fondest memories.
When we got home.... my wife started letting the neighbor have sex with her. She would bring me home the creampie...and i LOVE sloppy seconds... but he started seducing her. He also started to dominate her. He moved out and left his wife. I moved out, but i still see her almost every day. Now he is the primary relationship, and i'm the hot sex on the side. the roles have changed. She is now cucking him.
So...beside a long history, your questions about relationship.... LOVE, TRUST and COMMUNICATION will determine how your relationship goes. When I felt her wanting to be with her bf... that created the gap between us that he was trying to create. Now she realizes that she would rather be with me. I have to wait and see if her desire to be with me will over power her submissive nature.
If you have more questions...send me a message...thanks for the real questions.
Ditto on the size is good for sex, but love (emphasizing emotional connection) is a different experience.
One other note: large cocks are rare... everybody has a personal preference. Nina Hartley (porn star extrodinare) declared in a documentry that she favorite is a thick 8 inches. Of the two black men my wife has enjoyed, both were smaller than me...and i'm a little above average.
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