[Emilyh]

I have been into interracial dating and meetings since I have started to date when younger in high school to in college now and I notice alot of girls not only friends but others I come across in conversations about guys and dating in general are sort of closed minded about dating black guys but at the same time they are accepting of it? That sounds a bit strange but im finding that alot of them are interesting in meeting and getting with black guys and maybe even dating some but there seems to be a stigma out there about dating outside of your race and alot of women are very hesitant to do it even though alot of them seem very curious and want to but just pass it over or act shy and distance themselfs from it and ignore their feelings and emotions about it..

Well I want to change that and open all their eyes to what they are missing and I wont be forceful or anything but I wont stop talking about it until they are all more accepting of it and stop seeing it as something taboo or anything and they all start to act on their feelings and emotions on the matter and start to meet more black men and stop ignoring them for flings or for dating even since they are missing out on how cool and nice they are overall and not just more enjoyable in the bedroom! I have already spoken to some of my close friends who have thought about it and wanted to act on it but they have not had the courage so I have been giving them more information and stuff on some guys I know that they can meet and see if they like and have setup some group type setting dates with a few or so friends and guys at my apartment and im going to invite other girlfriends on different nights to meet some of the same guys and a few others to see if they have any chemistry together and hopefully this works out well and my friends will have the flings they are after or maybe even find some lasting relationships! Also I have talked to girls I odnt know very well yet about it and have changed their mind about some things they though about them that were not true like they only go after and like certain types of girls and all that garbage so I could brings more interracial pairings together and im also planning a few other party type meetings and have done a few things already the past few months and got one of my close friends to meet a cool black guy she has been dating for awhile now and things are getting serious with them so im seeing that these types of things work and im going to do all I can to get more stuff out thewre to break the stigma about white girls dating black guys and hopefully I can change things! But I was also thinking that together we are stronger and can achieve more! I was wondering if others are doing similar things also? or maybe some of you had some more ideas or thoughts to give me on how I can help change the minds of some of my friends and also help other girls that im recently meeting who are curious and wonder about black guys but dont really bother to act on those feelings because they feel its a taboo subject or their familys would not approve of them doing that so they avoid it, and suggestions thoughts or even encouraging comments would be great! thanks for reading my post just a few ideas im putting out there for now!